Martin Ucik

Author – Trainer – Consultant

Martin Ucik is an Author, Trainer, and Consultant who supports singles and couples in co-creating healthy integral love relationships. He moved to California in the 90s where he trained with Eckhart Tolle as a group facilitator and later became an avid student of Ken Wilber’s Integral Philosophy. This allowed him to integrate his relationship experiences into his books “Integral Relationships: A Manual for Men” and “Sex Purpose Love: Couples in Integral Relationships Creating a Better World”, which Wilber calls terrific and groundbreaking. Martin currently lives in Istanbul, Turkey, and teaches online and facilitates experiential workshops locally and worldwide.

Martin (1957) moved from Germany to California in 1995, where he trained with Eckhart Tolle as a Power of Now group facilitator. In 2006 he became an avid student of Ken Wilber’s Integral philosophy. This allowed him to integrate his relationship experiences with the wisdom from over 200 relationship books into Integral Relationships: A Manual for Men, which Ken Wilber calls “a terrific book and very impressive”. It is now translated into several languages and read in over 30 countries.

In 2011, Martin began to lead experiential integral relationship workshops in the US, Europe (including Russia), and Australia. In 2017, he released his second book, Sex, Purpose, Love: Couples in Integral Relationships Creating a Better World, in which he takes an integral approach to our capacity to love along the seven chakras and outlines why relationships with a shared purpose matter for a peaceful and sustainable future of humanity.
Ken Wilber calls it “a ground-breaking work how to make love relationships work from the very highest potentials possible.”

In May 2018, Martin trained Integral Relationship Coaches in Istanbul, Turkey. Subsequently, he moved there to establish an Integral Center where he designed and facilitated 26 practice modules that make the Integral Relationship Model applicable to address the day-to-day challenges of singles and couples.

He currently offers group and private trainings for Integral relationship practitioners, professionals, and group facilitators, and consultations for singles and couples via Zoom.
Once the Corona pandemic is over, Martin will again offer in-person Integral Relationship workshops and trainings around the world.

   “Martin has continued his ground-breaking work in applying Integral Theory to the whole complex issue of relationships. Like his first book in this area “Integral Relationships: A Manual for Men”, his second book “Sex Purpose Love” is fully grounded in Integral Theory, and continues adding new, interesting, and relevant material to it, to bring a truly up-to-date overview of today’s relationships and how to make them work from the very highest potentials possible. Some of it is controversial, but that’s what you expect from any truly great pioneering approaches, and this is certainly that. Given the fractured and fragmented state of relationships as they exist now, nothing is more important for today than a truly comprehensive and inclusive, and leading-edge guide. Highly recommended for men and women alike who are looking for a relationship today that will actually last. So check this out, you’ll be very glad you did!”

Ken Wilber, “Theory of everything”

Presenting Sex Purpose Love at Alex and Allyson Grey's Chapel of Sacred Mirrors, Wappinger, NY 2019

Sharing Sex Purpose Love with Prof. Allan Combs, PhD, Director of Consciousness Studies at the California Institute of Integral Studies (CIIS).

Martin during the online consultation with the couple, Integral Relationship Center Office, Istanbul, 2020.

Discussing Sex Purpose Love with Ken Wilber, father of Integral Theory

Facilitating an Integral Relationship Workshop at Alex and Allyson Grey's COSM in Fall 2019

Main Influences:

(Bold names in person)
  • A.H. Almas
  • Alex and Allyson Grey
  • Alison Armstrong
  • Allen Combs
  • Amelia Perkins
  • Andrew Cohen
  • Anodea Judith
  • Ayla Malach Pines
  • Bell Hooks
  • Bill Plotkin
  • Byron Katie
  • Carol Gilligan
  • Clair Zammit
  • Daniel Siegel
  • David Deida
  • David Schnarch
  • Deepak Chopra
  • Eckhart Tolle
  • Erich Fromm
  • Erik Muten
  • Ferdinand Fellmann
  • Gary Chapman
  • Gilles Herada
  • Harville Hendrix
  • Helen Fisher
  • Huston Smith
  • Jed Diamond
  • Jenny Wade
  • Jett Psaris
  • John Gottman
  • John Gray
  • John Welwood
  • Jonathan Gustin
  • Katherine Woodward Thomas
  • Keith Witt
  • Lena Gunarson
  • Liza Gabriel
  • Marlene Lyons
  • Marshall Rosenberg
  • Polly Young Eisendrath
  • Robert Augustus Masters
  • Robert Kegan
  • Robert Sternberg
  • Roger Walsh
  • Roy Bhaskar
  • Stephen Covey
  • Susan Campbell
  • Terry Patten
  • The Human Awareness Institute (HAI),
  • Thomas Hubel
  • Victor Frankl
  • Warren Farrell
  • ...and countless others

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