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Module 1: The four dimensions of relating
Book to learn and practice how to build a solid foundation for a healthy sustainable Integral love relationship. Realize in an exercise that when we fall in love and enter into a committed relationship, four essential dimensions of our human beings get into intimate...
Module 2: Survival, magic, and power in love relationships
Book to explore and learn about the first three of eight stages of consciousness development and how they impact our love relationships. The first Archaic (Beige/Infrared) stage deals with our needs and fears around survival issues, such as food, shelter, physical...
Module 3: Mythic conformism and modern rationality in love relationships
Book to learn about and explore the fourth and fifth stage of consciousness development and how they impact our love relationships. The fourth stage is called conformist. It seeks to satisfy our needs for stability, order, purpose, hope, recognition, right and wrong...
Module 4: Postmodern pluralistic sensitivity in love relationships
Book to learn about and explore the sixth stage of consciousness development and how it impacts our love relationships. This stage allows for greater compassion, idealism, and involvement. A sense that all human beings—regardless of race, gender, sexual orientation,...
Module 5: Integral and transpersonal love relationships
Book to learn about and explore the seventh and eight stage of consciousness development and how they impact our love relationships. People at the previous “first-tier” levels of consciousness development insist that their particular views and values are the best and...
Module 6: Compassionate communication
Book to learn and practice how people at the sixth level of consciousness development communicate. People at this level reject the idea of objective, absolute truths. They stress the importance that every observation or experience must be put into a relative,...
Module 7: Need-Based communication
Book to understand and practice how people at the first six levels of consciousness development communicate differently. We often hear that good communication is the most important thing to make relationships work. While this is essentially true, it is often not...
Module 8: Integral and transpersonal communication
Book to learn and practice how people at the seventh and eight level of consciousness development communicate. At the seventh Integral level, communication shifts from need-based to being-based, and from judgment to curiosity. There is an understanding that everyone...
Module 9: Biological Differences and Learned Gender Roles
Book to learn and practice how to differentiate between what is biologically given by nature between males and females, and learned gender roles or nurture between men and women. This will allow you to gain a better understanding of your own and the opposite sex. Are...
Module 10: Avoiding the Fear – Shame Downward Spiral
Book to learn and practice how to avoid going down the fear-shame spiral and how to heal and return to love if it already happened. About 50% of relationships crash because couples unconsciously go down the fear-shame spiral. The first step to avoid this unnecessary...
Module 11: Feminine-Masculine Polarities
Book to learn and practice how to develop, balance and harmonize healthy feminine and masculine polarities for the co-creation of sexual attraction and synergy in happy sustainable love relationships.The Integral Relationship model equates ascending and agency with...
Module 12: Spiritual Development
Image above: Five State/Stages of Waking Up and Eight Stages of Growing Up (a.k.a. Wilber-Combs Matrix/Lattice) Book to experience five state-stages of spiritual development or waking up and how they are interpreted from eight levels of consciousness development...
Module 13: Sexual Development
Book to learn about and experience five state-stages of sexual development, ranging from repressed to sacred/tantric. Understand why it is vital for thriving love relationships that couples are at least at level four, the “making love” stage. For them, sexuality is an...
Module 14: Anima Animus Complex Development
Book to learn about and experience five stages of animus complex development in women and five stages of anima complex development in men and how they profoundly impact your love relationships. Take a deep dive into your early childhood memories through a practical...
Module 15: Love Languages
\ Book to learn and practice how to improve your dates and love relationships by becoming aware of the five love languages. Identify which of the five is your and your partners primary and secondary expression and how to give and receive love and appreciation. A...
Module 16: Enneagram Types
Book to learn and practice how to identify which of the nine Enneagram types you and your partner resonate most with. From there you can feel into your “wings” (the type next to yours that you identify with) and the types you move towards under stress and when you...
Module 17: Attachment Styles
Book to learn and practice through a test how you and others react differently under relationship stress. There are four general attachment styles that are formed in early childhood and impact our adult life. Secure, anxious, avoidant, and anxious/avoidant (also...
Module 18: The Unconscious
Book to learn and practice how to own your primary emotional fight, flight or freeze reactions to your partners reality instead of projecting them outward onto him or her (you are responsible for making me react/feel that way). Separate your observations from your...
Module 19: Healing our Shadow
Book to learn and practice how to use relationship challenges for ongoing learning, healing, growing and awakening. When we have negative emotional reactions to our partners reality, we often blame him or her for hurting us, when in fact they just touch or trigger an...
Module 20: Eight Forms, Six Levels, and Five States of Love
Book to learn and practice in three paired breakout sessions how to navigate eight different forms of love (as shown below), five states or phases of love, and six levels of love that we typically experience in our romantic relationships. The Eight Forms of love are...
Module 21: Personality Disorders
Book to learn and practice how to identify possible personality disorders and how to deal with them in love relationships. We often can't distinguish between natural emotional reactions that we all experience from time to time in our love relationships when old wounds...
Module 22: Sharing your Biological Purpose
Book to learn and practice how to identify and share your Biological Purpose in a healthy love relationship. We will first look at how beliefs in creationism, evolutionary theory, intelligent design, or a co-creative impulse fundamentally inform our perspectives on...
Module 23: Transcendental Purpose
Book to learn and practice how to awaken to, identify, and live your transcendental purpose that goes beyond your biological purpose. It has two expressions: One is learning, healing, growing, and awakening in the context of a growth-oriented inter-being love...
Module 24: Soulmates
Book to learn and practice how to define, identify, and find or attract your soulmate. Most people want to be with their soulmate. They envision everlasting love, romance, sexual attraction, and happiness, and to live happily ever after once they fall in love--without...
Module 25: Co-Creation at the Seven Chakras
Book to learn and practice how to identify and open the seven chakras in our body. Each chakra has a gross, subtle, and causal “energy”, manifests in the four dimensions of our being (the mind, body, cultural, and social), and has feminine and masculine polarities....
Module 26: Path to Healthy Relationships and Why they Matter
Book to learn and practice why Love relationships matter, not only for our own well-being, but also for others and humanity at large, and how to create your personal path to relationship success, no matter if you are single or with a partner. The three primary reasons...