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Module 1: The four dimensions of relating
Learn and practice how to build a solid foundation for a healthy sustainable Integral love relationship. Realize in an exercise that when we fall in love and enter into a committed relationship, four essential dimensions of our human existence get into intimate...

Module 2: Survival, magic, and power in love relationships
Explore and learn about the first three of eight stages of consciousness development and how they impact our love relationships. The first Archaic (Beige/Infrared) stage deals with our needs and fears around survival issues, such as food, shelter, physical health,...

Module 3: Mythic conformism and modern rationality in love relationships
Learn about and explore the fourth and fifth stage of consciousness development and how they impact our love relationships. The fourth stage is called conformist. It seeks to satisfy our needs for stability, order, purpose, hope, recognition, right and wrong morals,...

Module 4: Postmodern pluralistic sensitivity in love relationships
Learn about and explore the sixth stage of consciousness development and how it impacts our love relationships. This stage allows for greater compassion, idealism, and involvement. A sense that all human beings—regardless of race, gender, sexual orientation, cultural...

Module 5: Integral and transpersonal love relationships
Learn about and explore the seventh and eight stage of consciousness development and how they impact our love relationships. People at the previous “first-tier” levels of consciousness development insist that their particular views and values are the best and only...

Module 6: Compassionate communication
Learn and practice how people at the sixth level of consciousness development communicate. People at this level reject the idea of objective, absolute truths. They stress the importance that every observation or experience must be put into a relative, culturally...

Module 7: Need-Based communication
Understand and practice how people at the first six levels of consciousness development communicate differently. We often hear that good communication is the most important thing to make relationships work. While this is essentially true, it is often not understood...

Module 8: Integral and transpersonal communication
Learn and practice how people at the seventh and eight level of consciousness development communicate. At this level, communication shifts from need-based to being-based, and from judgment to curiosity. There is an understanding that everyone is right from their own...

Module 9: Biological Differences and Learned Gender Roles
Learn and practice how to differentiate between what is biologically given by nature between males and females, and learned gender roles or nurture between men and women. This will allow you to gain a better understanding of your own and the opposite sex. Are men...

Module 10: Avoiding the Fear – Shame Downward Spiral
Learn and practice how to avoid going down the fear-shame spiral and how to heal and return to love if it already happened. About 50% of relationships crash because couples unconsciously go down the fear-shame spiral. The first step to avoid this unnecessary and...

Module 11: Feminine-Masculine Polarities
Learn and practice how to develop, balance and harmonize healthy feminine and masculine polarities for the co-creation of sexual attraction and synergy in happy sustainable love relationships. Embodying these four polarities allows both partners to be simultaneously...

Module 12: Spiritual Development
Learn about and experience five spiritual state-stages of spiritual development through a guided meditation. The first three states are likened to the waking (in which we are aware of physical objects), dreaming (in which we are identified with non-physical objects in...

Module 13: Sexual Development
Learn about and experience five state-stages of sexual development, ranging from repressed to sacred/tantric. Understand why it is vital for thriving love relationships that couples are at least at level four, the “making love” stage. For them, sexuality is an...

Module 14: Anima Animus Complex Development
Learn about and experience five stages of animus complex development in women and five stages of anima complex development in men and how they profoundly impact your love relationships. Take a deep dive into your early childhood memories through a practical exercise....

Module 15: Love Languages
Learn and practice how to improve your dates and love relationships by becoming aware of the five love languages. Identify which of the five is your and your partners primary and secondary expression and how give and receive love and appreciation. A simple test that...

Module 16: Enneagram Types
Learn and practice how to identify which of the nine Enneagram types you and your partner resonate most with. From there you can feel into your “wings” (the type next to yours that you identify with) and the types you move towards under stress and when you relax....

Module 17: Attachment Styles
Learn and practice through a test how you and others react differently under relationship stress. There are four general attachment styles that are formed in early childhood and impact our adult life. Secure, anxious, avoidant, and anxious/avoidant (also called...

Module 18: The Unconscious
Learn and practice how to own your primary emotional fight, flight or freeze reactions to your partners reality instead of projecting them outward onto him or her (you are responsible for making me react/feel that way). Separate your observations from your emotions....

Module 19: Healing our Shadow
Learn and practice how to use relationship challenges for ongoing learning, healing, growing and awakening. When we have negative emotional reactions to our partners reality, we often blame him or her for hurting us, when in fact they just touch or trigger an old...

Module 20: States of Falling in Love
Learn and practice how to navigate eight different forms of love, and the various states or phases they go through. To co-create a lasting, healthy, and happy love relationship, it is important to understand in which kind of love relationship you and your partner are,...

Module 21: Personality Disorders
Learn and practice how to identify possible personality disorders and how to deal with them in love relationships. We often can't distinguish between natural emotional reactions that we all experience from time to time in our love relationships when old wounds are...

Module 22: Sharing your Biological Purpose
Learn and practice how to identify and share your Biological Purpose in a healthy love relationship. We will first look at how believes in creationism, evolutionary theory, intelligent design, or a co-creative impulse fundamentally inform our perspectives on purpose...

Module 23: Transcendental Purpose
Learn and practice how to awaken to, identify, and live your transcendental purpose that goes beyond your biological purpose. It has two expressions: One is learning, healing, growing, and awakening in the context of a growth oriented inter-being love relationship....

Module 24: Soulmates
Learn and practice how to define, identify, and find or attract your soulmate. Most people want to be with their soulmate. They envision everlasting love, romance, sexual attraction, and happiness, and to live happily ever after once they fall in love--without having...

Module 25: Co-Creation at the Seven Chakras
Learn and practice how to identify and open the seven chakras in our body. Each chakra has a gross, subtle, and causal “energy”, manifests in the four dimensions of our being (the mind, body, cultural, and social), and has feminine and masculine polarities. Chakras...

Module 26: Path to Healthy Relationships and Why they Matter
Learn and practice how to create your personal roadmap to relationship success, no matter if you are single or with a partner. Co-create a healthy, sustainable love relationship with a shared purpose that makes the world a better place by integrating all the elements...