Integral Relationship Online Training

Become a Certified Integral Relationship Practitioner, Professional, or Group Facilitator Deutsche VersionRegister for Training #5

Last chance to sign up for Training #5!


Although training #5 has already started, you may still join us if you book a catch-up session with Martin for the modules you’ve missed.

The catch-up price is $120 for registrations till October 22nd (a 2-hour session) and $180 for registrations till October 29th (a 3-hour session).







 Improve your love life and explore the purpose and complexity of love relationships in the 21st century



The Integral Relationship Training is a 26-week live online course for singles, couples, helping professionals, and group facilitators who want to learn and practice how to co-create healthy love relationships in the 21st century and, if they so desire, support others in doing so.
Take a deep dive to integrate all aspects to realize your full human potentials in the context of a love relationship. All sessions are 100% live with Martin Ucik – the guru of integral love relationships.

Each training session consists of three parts: (1) Introduction to the topic. (2) Group exercises with people from all around the world, in which participants share their thoughts, feelings, and experiences, (3) group sharing and questions and answers with Martin.


Haven’t signed up for the training?
You may still join selected
individual sessions!


Join weekend sessions for selected modules for just $30! Register and pay below, and we’ll send you the confirmation with the Zoom link. Every week we cover one of the 26 Modules.



What is an Integral Relationship?


In an Integral Relationship, we bring the 14 essential elements for the co-creation of a healthy sustainable love relationship into a functional whole. Integral Love Relationships are unique because they build on the insight that adults have the potential for ongoing learning, healing, growing, and awakening, or “inter-becoming”, and to share a purpose that is larger than either individual and makes the world a better place. You’ll study and practice all of these 14 elements in the 26 modules of the training.  After you finish the training and receive a certificate, you could offer Integral Relationship Training and consultations and in your local community.

Who is Martin Ucik?

Martin is a visionary author, trainer, and relationship consultant. He wrote two books: Integral Relationships: A Manual for Men and Sex, Purpose, Love: Couples in Integral Relationships Creating a Better World, which Ken Wilber calls “terrific” and “ground-breaking”.

He now trains Integral relationship practitioners, consultants, and group facilitators, and offers private trainings and consultations for singles and couples.

In his books and teachings, he takes an integral approach to love between opposite and equal partners along the seven chakras by balancing and harmonizing healthy feminine and masculine polarities in all four dimensions of their being, and outlines why relationships with a shared purpose matter for a peaceful and sustainable future of humanity.

Read more about Martin.

For whom is Integral Relationship Training?


  1. Singles who want to find/attract their soulmate for the co-creation of an Integral Love Relationship.
  2. Couples who want to learn, heal, grow, awaken, and share a purpose in their relationships.
  3. Coaches, consultants, therapists, trainers, and other helping professionals who want to enrich their relationship expertise.
  4. Community organizers who want to facilitate local Integral Relationship practice groups for singles and couples.

What you will receive:


  1. 26 interactive Zoom classes (2 weekly 2-hour group sessions for you to choose from).
  2. Detailed worksheets for each of the 26 Modules. 
  3. Introductions, group and paired exercises, questions & answers, and sharing with people from around the world.
  4. Integral Movie night with discussions.
  5. Integral Relationship Professional and Group Facilitator Certificate of Completion that recognizes you as a qualified Integral Relationship Consultant.
  6. Listing on the international IRGF Map.
  7. One year free transferable membership on (a $97 value).
  8. 50% discount on personal consultations with Martin ($60 instead of $120 per hour).
  9. Access to all current and future Zoom training sessions and Alumni Sangha’s.
  10. Membership in the Global Meetup Network.
  11. 50% Discount for live Integral Relationship Workshop Gatherings.


If you miss the training for a particular module, need more instructions and practice, or want a personal consultation, you can book a personal session with Martin at 1/2 his usual rate ($60 per hour instead of $120).

Each week we cover one of the 26 modules which you find here

What our trainees say:

I would highly recommend anyone to take this relationship training. Read more

Ben Calder, UK

Be prepared for many new insights! Read more

Daniel Bäde, DE

So grateful for this brilliant opportunity. Read more

Barbara J. Hunt, UK

Martin is a kind, warm, and incredibly skilled instructor. Read more

Lissa Lofaso, NY

A comprehensive overview and in-depth education for facilitators. Read more

Durwin Foster, M.A., CA

The training is complete with graphics, exercises, worksheets, and step-by-step modules. Read more

Mary Gordon, HI

Has greatly expanded my way of thinking about relationships. Read more

Dr. Charles Dettman, ZA

I feel marveled. Read more

José Soutelinho, PT

Integral Relationship Course Overview

Module 1: The four dimensions of relating

Learn and practice how to build a solid foundation for a healthy sustainable Integral love relationship. Realize in an exercise that when we fall in love and enter into a committed relationship, four essential dimensions of our human existence get into intimate contact. Learn More

Module 3: Mythic conformism and modern rationality in love relationships

 Learn about and explore the fourth and fifth stage of consciousness development and how they impact our love relationships. Learn More

Module 5: Integral and transpersonal love relationships

Learn about and explore the seventh and eight stage of consciousness development and how they impact our love relationships. Learn More

Module 7: Need-Based communication

Understand and practice how people at the first six levels of consciousness development communicate differently. Learn More

Module 9: Biological Differences and Learned Gender Roles

Learn and practice how to differentiate between what is biologically given by nature between males and females, and learned gender roles or nurture between men and women. This will allow you to gain a better understanding of your own and the opposite sex. Learn More

Module 11: Feminine-Masculine Polarities

Learn and practice how to develop, balance and harmonize healthy feminine and masculine polarities for the co-creation of sexual attraction and synergy in happy sustainable love relationships. Embodying these four polarities allows both partners to be simultaneously whole in themselves and part of the relationship. Learn More

Module 13: Sexual Development

Learn about and experience five state-stages of sexual development, ranging from repressed to scared/tantric. Learn More

Module 15: Love Languages

Learn and practice how to improve your dates and love relationships by becoming aware of the five love languages. Identify which of the five is your and your partner’s primary and secondary expression and how to give and receive love and appreciation. Learn More

Module 17: Attachment Styles

Learn and practice through a test how you and others react differently under relationship stress. There are four general attachment styles that are formed in early childhood and impact our adult life.  Learn More

Module 19: Healing our Shadow

Learn and practice how to use relationship challenges for ongoing learning, healing, growing and awakening. Learn More

Module 21: Personality Disorders

Learn and practice how to identify possible personality disorders and how to deal with them in love relationships. Learn More

Module 23: Transcendental Purpose

Learn and practice how to awaken to, identify, and live your transcendental purpose that goes beyond your biological purpose. Read More

Module 25: Co-Creation at the Seven Chakras

Learn and practice how to identify and open the seven chakras in our body. Each chakra has a gross, subtle, and causal “energy”, manifests in the four dimensions of our being (the mind, body, cultural, and social), and has feminine and masculine polarities. Read more

Module 2: Survival, magic, and power in love relationships

Learn about and explore the first three of eight stages of consciousness development and how they impact our love relationships. Learn More

Module 4: Postmodern pluralistic sensitivity in love relationships

Learn about and explore the sixth stage of consciousness development and how it impacts our love relationships. Read more

Module 6: Compassionate communication

Learn and practice how people at the sixth level of consciousness development communicate. Read more

Module 8: Integral and transpersonal communication

Learn and practice how people at the seventh and eight level of consciousness development communicate. Read More

Module 10: Avoiding the Fear – Shame Downward Spiral

Learn and practice how to avoid going down the fear-shame spiral and how to heal and return to love if it already happened. Read more

Module 12: Spiritual Development

Learn about and experience five spiritual state-stages of spiritual development through a guided meditation. The first three states are likened to the waking (in which we are aware of physical objects), dreaming (in which we are identified with non-physical objects in our mind), and dreamless sleep (in which we fall into a state of timeless emptiness).  Read more

Module 14: Anima Animus Complex Development

Learn about and experience five stages of animus complex development in women and five stages of anima complex development in men and how they profoundly impact your love relationships. Read more

Module 16: Enneagram Types

Learn and practice how to identify which of the nine Enneagram types you and your partner resonate most with. Read more

Module 18: The Unconscious

Learn and practice how to own your primary emotional fight, flight or freeze reactions to your partner’s reality instead of projecting them outward onto him or her (you are responsible for making me react/feel that way). Read more

Module 20: States of Falling in Love

Learn and practice how to navigate eight different forms of love, and the various states or phases they go through. Read more

Module 22: Sharing your Biological Purpose

Learn and practice how to identify and share your Biological Purpose in a healthy love relationship. Read more

Module 24: Soulmates

Learn and practice how to define, identify, and find or attract your soulmate.  Read more

Module 26: Path to Healthy Relationships and Why they Matter

Learn and practice how to create your personal roadmap to relationship success, no matter if you are single or with a partner. Learn More

Join our community


In the past 12 months, Martin trained over 300 Integral Relationship Practitioners, Professionals and Group Facilitators in 30+ countries via Zoom.

Integral Center Istanbul

Mecidiyeköy, Lati Lokum Sk. No:12, 34387 Şişli/İstanbul, Turkey

Telefon: +90 531 655 93 06


Integral Relationship Group Facilitator Mahendra, San Francisco

Yoga Society of SF

2872 Folsom Street, San Francisco, Ca-94110

Mahendra aka Briksha

Hamsa Integral Breathwork

415 503 78 02

photo by Ana Grillo © 2013

Integral Relationship Group Facilitator Enrique, Shrewsbury

Enrique Fernandez

SY1 2NW Shrewsbury, Shropshire, UK

0044 797 111 24 14


Integral Relationship Group Facilitator Ben, Shrewsbury

Ben Calder 

Centre for Integral Health 

4, St Austin’s Friars 




+44 774 894 71 31

Integral Relationship Group Facilitator Anelia - Sofia, Bulgaria

Anelia Atova

Sofia / Bulgaria


Integral Relationship Group Facilitator Barbara - Somerset, United Kingdom

Barbara J. Hunt

Somerset UK – BA10

Integral Relationship Group Facilitator Sylvia - Toronto, Canada

Sylvia Kraus of SoulMotion Therapy

Integral Relationship Group Facilitator Durwin - North Vancouver, Canada

Durwin Foster, M.A.

Canadian Certified Counsellor

North Vancouver, B.C.

V7G 1J5

Integral Relationship Group Facilitator Steve - Whitehorse, Canada

Steve Caram

Integral Professional Coach

Integrale Beziehungen Gruppenleiter Gerhard - Wien, Austia

Püchlgasse 1A-1C (Eingang Gallmeyergasse), 1190 Wien, Österreich

Walk and Talk Counseling Institute

Gerhard Göschl, MBA, MSc, Diplomierter Lebens und Sozial Berater i.A.u.S

Arbeitssprachen/Working Languages: Deutsch – English

Püchlgasse 1A-1C (Eingang Gallmeyergasse), 1190 Wien, Österreich

+43 (681) 817 488 33

Integrale Beziehungen Gruppenleiter Ursula - Wien, Austria

Ursula Scarimbolo-Savera  ǀ  metamorphosis – time for a change  ǀ   Integrative Psychotherapie und Paartherapie (Imago)  ǀ  Communication & Relationship Training

Arbeitssprachen/Working Languages: Deutsch – English – Français
0043 664/112 77 37

Integral Relationship Group Facilitator Tomas - Nykøbing Sj., Denmark

Tomas Jakobsson

4500 Nykøbing sj. DK

Integrale Beziehungen Gruppenleiter Ursula - Oberwaltersdorf , Austria

Ursula Scarimbolo-Savera  ǀ  metamorphosis – time for a change  ǀ   Integrative Psychotherapie und Paartherapie (Imago)  ǀ  Communication & Relationship Training

Arbeitssprachen/Working Languages: Deutsch – English – Français
0043 664/112 77 37

Integral Relationship Group Facilitator Luce - Desert Hot Springs, California

Luce Quatromme

Desert Hot Springs 92240

1 310 413 49 56

Integral Relationship Group Facilitator Tomar

José Soutelinho

Integral Relationship Group Facilitator Wynnewood

Integral Relationship Group Facilitator Maui, Hawaii

Mary Gordon

Maui, Hawaii

808 419 88 82

Integral Relationship Group Facilitator Ben - Flintshire, United Kingdom

Ben Calder

Integral Health


Deeside, Flintshire

+44 774 894 71 31

Integral Relationship Group Facilitator Merritt Island

Barbara J. Segura

Integrale Beziehungen Gruppenleiter Schwäbisch Hall

CoachingPraxis Rahl

Cornelia Theresia und Roberto Rahl

Herdweg 40

74523 Schwäbisch Hall-Sulzdorf

Tel +49 7907 9999 788

Integrale Beziehungen Gruppenleiter Nordhausen

Integrale Beziehungen Gruppenleiter Mölln

Integral Relationship Group Facilitator Mullumbimby

Integral Relationship Group Facilitator Kailua-Kona

Integral Relationship Group Facilitator London

Dan Joy

Lomi Lomi Teacher, Complementary Therapist

+4475 00 861738

‘one of the best massages in London’ – Time Out

Trainer, Life Coach, Mediator 

Therapist Coordinator

The Psychedelic Society 

Integral Relationship Group Facilitator Northampton

Erik Muten, MFA, PsyD, Clinical Psychologist & Mentor

Integral Relationship Group Facilitator Landsberg am Lech

Marco Gagelmann – ID-DOPING

“Integral Mentor for Autonomy, Simplicity, Freedom, Peace and Love“

 0 15 22 / 2 81 86 28

Integral Relationship Group Facilitator Øster Ulslev

Dennis Funch

Funch & Stisen


Integral Relationship Group Facilitator Topeka



Integral Relationship Group Facilitator Weinsberg

Integral Relationship Group Facilitator Copenhagen

Beatrice Irambona

Integral Relationship Group Facilitator Terre Haute

Denver J. Hudson
Advanced Fitness Coaching

Integral Relationship Group Facilitator Strasbourg

Integral Relationsip Group Facilitator and one-one Coaching - Brigham, Quebec CA

Yves Mayer

 Brigham, Quebec, Canada

J2K 4L6

Integral Relationship Group Facilitator and one on one coaching



Integral Relationship Group Facilitator & Coach - Hawarden, UK

Integral Relationships facilitator & Coach – one to one/ group workshops/ online and face to face services

+44 7900 994399

+44 1743 369866

Integral Relationship Group Facilitator Dani - Gijon, Spain

Dani Glez




Integral Relatiopnship Group Facilitator Charles - Pretoria, South Africa

Integral Relationship Group Facilitator: Dr Charles Dettman (PhD)

Mobile: +27 82 440 7996



Integral Relationship Group Facilitator Peter - Frankfurt, Germany

Peter Link


60489 Frankfurt am Main, Niddagaustr. 58, Germany


Integral Relationship Group Facilitator Raaquel - Alicante, Spain

Market, organize, host, and facilitate a local Integral Relationship Group after COVID-19

Since 2002, Martin has created and successfully run experiential Power of Now and Integral Relationship groups in Santa Rosa, CA, Los Angeles, CA, and Istanbul, Turkey. He also facilitated numerous Integral Relationship workshops and trainings around the world. The format evolved into 26 individual group modules or sessions with practical exercises that you can learn. Each module is self-contained and addresses certain relationship potentials. This new training cycle is an opportunity for you to be of service by bringing people together, to share your relationship wisdom, to grow as a person, and to earn money if that is of interest to you.

We also offer you support with setting up, designing, and posting on Meetup, Facebook, Instagram, YouTube, and Twitter accounts; creating databases for sending out group emails and WhatsApp messages, and with creating WordPress pages for $15 per hour/project. (A higher rate applies for setting-up and designing a WordPress website from scratch.) Send an email to to discuss your needs


Space is limited so sign up now and get a 50% discount for the Integral Relationship workshop in Istanbul in September 2022!

If you prefer to pay in Euros by wire transfer you may transfer the funds to the German bank account below:

Bank: Volksbank Hohenlohe – Account Name: Martin Ucik
IBAN: DE67 6209 1800 0113 5140 00

If you have a US Bank Account you may pay with Zelle to

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Questions & Answers

Has the training been already recorded?

No, all the Integral Relationship Online Training sessions are live with Martin Ucik. You could be able to have discussions, ask questions, and do exercises.

Will I receive a certificate after the course completion?

Yes, but for this, you need to complete all 26 sessions.

What if I miss the session? How can catch up?

You can catch up with other participants on another day, the same material will be repeated 3 times per week. If you couldn’t be able to do that too, you can book a private session with Martin for $45 per hour. 

What is your cancellation/refund policy?

We offer a full refund up to the second module if this training is not for you.

Does the Integral Relationship Online Training fit non-straight people?

We had several “non-straight” people in the training (and previous workshops and reading my books).

I am hetero and write and teach from my own experiences (theory only is blind).

Some find the integral relationship approach helpful, some not, so it seems to be a matter of personal experience, vulnerabilities, and level of consciousness.

Most modules are “gender-neutral” I would say, except Module 9 and 10, in which we cover Biological differences, learned Gender roles and the fear-shame downward spiral, even though some non-straight participants found that helpful too.