Integral Relationship Consultations with Martin
Let me help you solve your relationship problems
“The significant relationship problems we face can not be solved at the same level of development we were at when we created them.”
Don’t break up or stay single until you talk with me!
I am here to help. Pay my regular fees below or what you can afford.
We are in this together and your relationship health was never as important than during this crisis. Contact me now at [email protected], skype (martinucik), WhatsApp from the US 01190 535 863 6450 or from Europe 0090 535 863 6450, or via my US phone number +1 707 566 2106. I am here seven days a week.
Why an Integral approach?
The Integral approach to identifying and solving your relationship problems is like no other. It draws from all the available relationship wisdom from the East and West that is available to us today and puts it into a developmental context. This includes the material, physical, sexual, mental, emotional, psychological, spiritual, existential, social and cultural aspects.
What relationship aspects will we look at exactly?
In my experience, relationship problems arise when singles or couples are not at the same level of development, when one or more of their seven chakras are blocked at the physical, mental, emotional, social, or unconscious level, or if there is no balance and synergy between healthy feminine and masculine polarities. Chakra issues include survival/safety, creation/sexuality, power/boundaries, heart/feelings, self-expression/creativity, wisdom/vision and unity/higher power. Developmental differences include consciousness from archaic to transpersonal, sexual from repressed to tantric/sacred, spiritual from material to non-dual, and anima/animus complex from alienated to co-creators.
If you and your partner or date are at different levels of development in any of these lines, relationship conflicts are inevitable. I will work with you to either get aligned or to separate with love and compassion. You may also have gone down the female fear and male shame spiral. About 50% of relationships crash because of it. I developed a powerful process to support you to get back to love and romance if this is you main issue. We will also look at personality types, such as the five love languages, the nine types of the Enneagram, and, very important, attachment styles (secure, avoidant, anxious, and ambivalent/disorganized).
Our exploration will include the conscious and unconscious aspects, including shadow elements, and possible personality disorders such as narcissistic, borderline, histrionic and bipolar.
And finally, and maybe most important, we will identify if the purpose for you and your partner to be in a relationship is purely biological, or also includes aspects of learning, healing, growing and awakening, or has evolved to making the world a better place as a couple.
How will we work together?
I will first listen to the relationship challenges that you face. This allows me to deeply and feel and intuit into your suffering, longings and unmet needs. Through our dialog, solutions will emerge from my broad relationship knowledge and deep experiences that I will suggest to you. You can then decide which of the approaches, processes and resources resonate most with you to further learn, heal, grow or awaken. If you need additional support, I can guide you on your path or refer you to a specialist.
Why should I work with you (first)?
In short, because of my broad knowledge, deep experience, and intuitive compassion.
There are numerous specialized relationship experts and methods to chose from. The question often is; what is the best approach? I spent over 20 years to identify and learn as much as I can from the best through their books, talks, seminars, workshops, retreats and in person to answer that question for you.
They include Eckhart Tolle, Liza Gabriel, The Human Awareness Institute (HAI), David Deida, Katherine Woodward Thomas, Clair Zammit, A.H. Almas, Anodea Judith, Alison Armstrong, Marshall Rosenberg, Roy Bhaskar, Terry Patten, Susan Campbell, Gary Chapman, Jett Psaris, Marlene Lyons, John Gray, Deepak Chopra, Allen Combs, Stephen Covey, Warren Farrell, Ferdinand Fellmann, Helen Fisher, Victor Frankl, Erich Fromm, Carol Gilligan, John Gottman, Alex and Allyson Grey, Lena Gunarson, Harville Hendrix, Gilles Herada, Bell Hooks, Byron Katie, Robert Kegan, Andrew Cohen, Ayla Malach Pines, Jonathan Gustin, Rober Augustus Masters, Bill Plotkin, David Schnarch, Daniel Siegel, Huston Smith, Robert Sternberg, Jenny Wade, Roger Walsh, John Welwood, Keith Witt, Polly Young Eisendrath, Thomas Hubel, Erik Muten, Amelia Perkins, and Jed Diamond, to name a few of over 300 I could name, and countless others that I can’t.
The work of my friend Ken Wilber allowed me to integrate their insights and my experiences into two acclaimed books; Integral Relationships: A Manual for Men and Sex Purpose Love. In the past 10 years, I consulted hundreds of clients and facilitated workshops on four continents with thousands of participants. I was married twice, helped to raise three amazing daughters, and, for better or worse, dated hundreds of women from multiple countries and cultural backgrounds. This allows me to help you directly or refer you to the best resources.
How do I reach you?
I offer Integral relationship consultations in English and German for singles and couples in person (currently Istanbul, Turkey), via skype (username: martinucik), zoom, by phone (International +1-707-566-2106 or Turkey +9 0535-863 64 50), WhatsApp from the US 01190 535 863 6450 or from Europe 0090 535 863 6450, or by email [email protected]
For hourly consultations and questions via email you may buy coaching points below, according to your needs.
15 Points = 15 minutes or one email/WhatsApp question
30 Points = 30 minutes or two email/WhatsApp questions
60 Points = 60 minutes or four email/WhatsApp questions
If you experience financial hardship because of the coronavirus or any other reasons, I am still here to help you.
Let me know what relationship challenges or desires you have, and what you can afford to have them solved. We can then arrange payment via paypal, check, or wire transfer.