There are three levels of soulmates. Each higher-level transcends and includes the previous one. Your first step is to become clear about what level of soulmate you want to find/attract.
A “Biological Soulmate” that you feel physically attracted to, experience “chemistry” on an intellectual mind, emotional heart level, and who shares your lifestyle, values, and dreams for the future?
Or also a “Challenge Soulmate” who is at your level of development? This person mirrors and inspires you to realize your soul’s full potential in the safe container of your love relationship. So that you can become the best version of yourself in all four dimensions of your being?
Or also a “Purpose Soulmate” with who you share your transcendental purpose and co-create at the level of all seven chakras to make the world a better place.
At Integral Relationship Training, we have a practice exercise where you make a list of your needs and desires in a partner. You can make this exercise now by yourself. After that, you write down how your soul will feel when he or she comes into your life. This list then becomes your soulmate profile. Next, you want to write down the conditions you need to develop to become attractive to your soulmate and to welcome him or her into your life. This is followed by considering and removing all negative voices and obstacles such as fear, shame, and judgments in your head (Ego) that prevent you from finding your soulmate. And finally, you want to develop a dating strategy including questions to ask to identify him or her.
You learn more Integral Relationship model, so it will be much easier for you to attract the right partner and finally find your soulmate.