Additional books and links in IRP book

Module 1:

Module 2:

STAGES model: http://www.perspegrity.com/papers/STAGES%20background_Murray.pdf

Robert Kaiser powerpoint Stages of Growth: https://docs.google.com/presentation/d/1dU6OpyBplbJPQXJhtP3dTH5Ns6mYql98/

The Everything Love Signs Book: Use astrology to find your perfect partner! (2012) by Jenni Kosarin https://www.amazon.com/Everything-Love-Signs-Book-astrology/dp/1440528195 

The Rules: Time-tested Secrets for Capturing the Heart of Mr. Right (1995) by Ellen Fein and Sherrie Schneider
https://www.amazon.com/All-Rules-Time-tested-Secrets-Capturing/dp/0446618799

The Pickup Artist: The New and Improved Art of Seduction (2010) by Mystery (aka Erik von Markovik)
https://www.amazon.co.uk/Pickup-Artist-New-Improved-Seduction/dp/0345518195

The Game: Penetrating the Secret Society of Pickup Artists (2005) by Neil Strauss https://www.amazon.com/Game-Penetrating-Secret-Society-Artists/dp/0060554738

Module 3:

The Art of Loving (1956) by Erich Fromm https://www.amazon.com/Art-Loving-Erich-Fromm/dp/0061129739

The Exceptional Seven Percent: The Nine Secrets of the World’s Happiest Couples (2000) by Gregory K. Popcak https://www.amazon.com/Exceptional-Seven-Percent-Secrets-Happiest/dp/0806523581

The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work (1999) by John Gottman and Nan Silver https://www.amazon.com/Principles-Making-Marriage-Gottman-1999-12-01/dp/B01K92U968

For Men Only: A Straightforward Guide to the Inner Lives of Women (2006) by Shaunti and Jeff Feldhahn https://www.amazon.com/Men-Only-Straightforward-Guide-Inner/dp/B0035G04Q6

For Women Only: What You Need to Know about the Inner Lives of Men (2004) by Shaunti Feldhahn

Why Mars and Venus Collide: Improving Relationships by Understanding How Men and Women Cope Differently with Stress (2007) by John Gray https://www.amazon.com/Mars-Venus-Collide-Relationships-Understanding/dp/0061242977

How to Improve Your Marriage Without Talking About It, (2007) by Patricia Love and Steven Stosny https://www.amazon.com/Improve-Marriage-Without-Talking-About/dp/0767923189

Making Sense of Men: A Woman’s Guide to a Lifetime of Love, Care and Attention from All Men, (2008) by Alison Armstrong https://www.amazon.com/Making-Sense-Men-Lifetime-Attention/dp/1605309095

Why We Love: The Nature and Chemistry of Romantic Love, (2004) by Helen Fisher https://www.amazon.com/Why-We-Love-Chemistry-Romantic/dp/B01L9DL6ZO

Real Love: The Truth About Finding Unconditional Love & Fulfilling Relationships, (2003) by Greg Baer https://www.amazon.com/Real-Love-Unconditional-Fulfilling-Relationships/dp/1592400477

Getting The Love You Want: A Guide for Couples, (2005) by Harville Hendrix https://www.amazon.com/Getting-Love-You-Want-Couples/dp/0743495926

The New Rules Of Marriage: What You Need to Know to Make Love Work, (2007) by Terrence Real https://www.amazon.com/New-Rules-Marriage-What-Need/dp/0345480864

Passionate Marriage: Keeping Love and Intimacy Alive in Committed Relationships, (1997) by David Schnarch https://www.amazon.com/Passionate-Marriage-Intimacy-Committed-Relationships/dp/0393334279

Hold Me Tight: Seven Conversations for a Lifetime of Love, (2008) by Sue Johnson https://www.amazon.com/Hold-Me-Tight-Conversations-Lifetime-ebook/dp/B0011UGLQK

Is He Mr. Right?: Everything You Need to Know Before You Commit by (2006) Mira Kirshenbaum https://www.amazon.com/He-Mr-Right-Everything-Before/dp/0307336735

The Intelligent Woman’s Guide to Online Dating, (2008) by Dale Koppel https://www.amazon.com/Intelligent-Womans-Guide-Online-Dating/dp/0615242472

Relationship Roulette: Improve Your Odds at Lasting Love (2010) by Carol Diamond https://www.amazon.com/Relationship-Roulette-Improve-Your-Lasting/dp/031338357X

Stumbling Naked In the Dark: Overcoming Mistakes That Men Make with Women, (2003) by Bradley Fenton https://www.amazon.com/Stumbling-Naked-Dark-Overcoming-Mistakes/dp/0981484336

Module 4:

The Way of the Superior Man: A Spiritual Guide to Mastering the Challenges of Women, Work, and Sexual Desire (1997) David Deida https://www.amazon.com/The-Way-of-Superior-Man-audiobook/dp/B07FXZBYJ9/

The Path to Love: Spiritual Strategies for Healing, (1996) by Deepak Chopra https://www.amazon.com/Path-Love-Spiritual-Strategies-Healing/dp/060980135X

Undefended Love, (2000) by Jett Psaris and Marlena Lyons https://www.amazon.com/Undefended-Love-Jett-Psaris/dp/1572242086

How to Be an Adult in Relationships: The Five Keys to Mindful Loving (2002) by David Richo https://www.amazon.com/How-Be-Adult-Relationships-Mindful/dp/1570628122

Love and Awakening: Discovering the Sacred Path of Intimate Relationship, (1996) by John Welwood https://www.amazon.com/Love-Awakening-Discovering-Intimate-Relationship/dp/0060927976

The Heart’s Wisdom: A Practical Guide to Growing through Love, (1999) by Joyce and Barry Vissell https://www.amazon.com/Hearts-Wisdom-Practical-Growing-Through/dp/1573241555

If the Buddha Dated: A Handbook for Finding Love On a Spiritual Path, (1999) by Charlotte Kasl https://www.amazon.com/If-Buddha-Dated-Handbook-Spiritual/dp/0140195831

Calling In “The One”: 7 Weeks to Attract the Love of Your Life, (2004) by Katherine Woodward Thomas https://www.amazon.com/Calling-One-Weeks-Attract-Love/dp/1400049296

Module 5:

Compatibility matrix, David Fonsbo: https://www.themasculineman.com/compatibility-matrix/  

Integral Psychology (2000) by Ken Wilber https://www.amazon.com/Integral-Psychology-Consciousness-Spirit-Therapy/dp/1570625549 

The STAGES self-assessment course by Dr. Mark Forman https://coursecraft.net/courses/z9Wc8/splash

https://www.stagesinternational.com/about/#the-model

Critique of STAGES model: http://integralleadershipreview.com/15583-integral-theory-making-and-the-need-for-empirical-rigor-observations-from-the-field-of-adult-development/

Module 6:

Nonviolent Communication (A Language of Life) (2015) Marshall B. Rosenberg https://www.amazon.com/Nonviolent-Communication-Language-Life-Changing-Relationships/dp/189200528X/

Module 7:

Getting to Yes: Negotiating Agreement Without Giving In (Revised Edition) 2011 Roger Fisher, William L. Ury, Bruce Patton (based on the work of the Harvard Negotiation Project) https://www.amazon.com/Getting-Yes-Negotiating-Agreement-Without/dp/0143118757

https://www.biggerplate.com/mindmaps/w923917/getting-to-yes

Nonviolent Communication (A Language of Life) (2015) Marshall B. Rosenberg

https://www.amazon.com/Nonviolent-Communication-Language-Life-Changing-Relationships/dp/189200528X/

Module 8:

Integral: Habermas: A Very Short Introduction (2005) Gordon Finlayson https://www.amazon.com/Habermas-Short-Introduction-Gordon-Finlayson/dp/0192840959

 

Integral: Pragmatism: An Introduction (2012) Michael Bacon https://www.amazon.com/Pragmatism-Introduction-Michael-Bacon/dp/0745646654

 

Turquoise: Metatheory for the Twenty-First Century. Critical Realism and Integral Theory in Dialogue (2015) Edited by Roy Bhaskar, Sean Esbjörn-Hargens, Nicholas Hedlund-de Witt. https://www.amazon.com/Metatheory-21st-Century-Critical-Integral-dp-0415820464/dp/0415820464

 

A Complex Integral Realist Perspective: Towards A New Axial Vision (2016) by Paul Marshall https://www.amazon.com/Complex-Integral-Realist-Perspective-Towards/dp/0815362188

 

Turquoise: Articles and resources “Non-Dual Dialectical Critical Realism”. https://centreforcriticalrealism.com/

Module 9:

The Evolution of Human Sexuality (1981) by Donald Symons https://www.amazon.com/Evolution-Human-Sexuality-Donald-Symons/dp/0195029070/

The Myth of Male Power: Why Men are the Disposable Sex (1993) by Warren Farrell https://www.amazon.com/Myth-Male-Power-Warren-Farrell-ebook/dp/B076HVLZGH/

 

Warrior Lovers: Erotic Fiction, Evolution and Female Sexuality (2003) Donald Symons and Catherine Salmon https://www.amazon.com/Warrior-Lovers-Fiction-Evolution-Sexuality/dp/0300093543/

 

The Evolution Of Desire: Strategies of Human Mating (2003) by David M. Buss https://www.amazon.com/Evolution-Desire-Strategies-Human-Mating/dp/046500802X/

 

The Mating Mind: How Sexual Choice Shaped the Evolution of Human Nature (2001) by Geoffrey Miller

 

Redefining Seduction: Women Initiating Courtship, Partnership and Peace (2009) by Donna Sheehan with Paul Reffell.

 

Dataclysm: Love, Sex, Race, and Identity—What Our Online Lives Tell Us about Our Offline Selves (2015) by Christian Rudder.

From women to men https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ibnVRAMlXno&list=PLZwCUikP-7vzOL2aui8b_vrnOdVqX0_7H&index=305&t=0s

From men to women: The battle is over https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rCGTYld8Yjk

 

Module 10:

How to Improve Your Marriage Without Talking About It (2008) by Patricia Love und Steven Stosny https://www.amazon.com/Improve-Marriage-Without-Talking-About/dp/0767923189

Passionate Marriage: Keeping love and intimacy alive in committed relationships (1997) by David Schnarch https://www.amazon.com/Passionate-Marriage-Intimacy-Committed-Relationships/dp/0393334279

Making Sense of Men: A Woman’s Guide to a Lifetime of Love, Care and Attention from All Men (2008) by Alison Armstrong https://www.amazon.com/Making-Sense-Men-Lifetime-Attention/dp/1605309095

Brené Brown Ted Talk https://www.ted.com/talks/brene_brown_listening_to_shame

Module 11:

Hula hoop https://www.amazon.com/hula-hoops/s?k=hula+hoops.

Soft rhythmic music: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XVnmllLhfDw

Intimate Communion: Awakening Your Sexual Essence (1995) by David Deida https://www.amazon.com/Intimate-Communion-Awakening-Sexual-Essence/dp/155874374X/

Sex and the Seasoned Woman (2007) Gail Sheehy https://www.amazon.com/Sex-Seasoned-Woman-Pursuing-Passionate/dp/0812972740

New Passages (1996) Gail Sheehy https://www.amazon.com/New-Passages-Mapping-Your-Across/dp/0345404459

Module 12:

Meditation video: https://youtu.be/ZPtT3p8T6Cg

The Power of Now: A Guide to Spiritual Enlightenment (2004) by Eckhart Tolle https://www.amazon.com/Power-Now-Guide-Spiritual-Enlightenment/dp/1577314808/

Integral Spirituality: A Startling New Role for Religion in the Modern and Postmodern World Paperback (2007) by Ken Wilber https://www.amazon.com/Integral-Spirituality-Startling-Religion-Postmodern/dp/1590305272/

Integral Meditation: Mindfulness as a Way to Grow Up, Wake Up, and Show Up in Your Life (2016) by Ken Wilber https://www.amazon.com/Integral-Meditation-Mindfulness-Grow-Wake/dp/1611802989/

Cutting Through Spiritual Materialism (2002) by Chögyam Trungpa https://www.amazon.com/Cutting-Through-Spiritual-Materialism-Chogyam/dp/1570629579

SQ21: The Twenty-One Skills of Spiritual Intelligence (2012) by Cindy Wigglesworth https://www.amazon.com/SQ21-Twenty-One-Skills-Spiritual-Intelligence/dp/159079298X/

Spiritual Bypassing: When Spirituality Disconnects Us from What Really Matters (2010) by Robert Augustus Masters, PhD https://www.amazon.com/Spiritual-Bypassing-Spirituality-Disconnects-Matters/dp/1556439059

Love and Awakening: Discovering the Sacred Path of Intimate Relationship (1997) by John Welwood https://www.amazon.com/Love-Awakening-Discovering-Intimate-Relationship/dp/0060927976/

Journey of the Heart: The Path of Conscious Love by John Welwood (1996) https://www.amazon.com/Journey-Heart-Path-Conscious-Love/dp/0060927429/

Toward a Psychology of Awakening: Buddhism, Psychotherapy, and the Path of Personal and Spiritual Transformation (2002) by John Welwood https://www.amazon.com/Toward-Psychology-Awakening-Psychotherapy-Transformation/dp/1570628238/

Perfect Love, Imperfect Relationships: Healing the Wound of the Heart (2007) by John Welwood https://www.amazon.com/Perfect-Love-Imperfect-Relationships-Healing/dp/1590303865/

Evolutionary Enlightenment: A New Path to Spiritual Awakening (2011) by Andrew Cohen. (I think the book misses ethical and moral checks and balances, but it takes enlightenment to an important new level.) https://www.amazon.com/Evolutionary-Enlightenment-Path-Spiritual-Awakening/dp/1590792092

Links to articles about the health benefits of meditation/mindfulness:

https://www.newsweek.com/topic/mindfulness

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4769029/

Module 13:

Recorded meditation: https://www.youtube.com/c/IntegralRelationships

Jim Wilson “Northern Seascape” album:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YsDF3e6XdRE or,

https://www.allmusic.com/album/northern-seascape-mw0000046855

Mars and Venus in the Bedroom: A Guide to Lasting Romance and Passion (2009) John Gray

https://www.amazon.com/Mars-Venus-Bedroom-Lasting-Romance/dp/0060927933/

Passionate Marriage: Keeping Love and Intimacy Alive in Committed Relationships (2009) David Schnarch

https://www.amazon.com/Passionate-Marriage-Intimacy-Committed-Relationships/dp/0393334279

Transcendent Sex: When Lovemaking Opens the Veil (2004), Jenny Wade.

https://www.amazon.com/Transcendent-Sex-When-Lovemaking-Opens/dp/0743482174

Intimate Communion: Awakening Your Sexual Essence (1995) David Deida

https://www.amazon.com/Intimate-Communion-Awakening-Sexual-Essence/dp/155874374X

Finding God Through Sex: Awakening the One of Spirit Through the Two of Flesh (2005) David Deida

https://www.amazon.com/Finding-God-Through-Sex-Awakening/dp/1591792738

 

Dear Lover: A Woman’s Guide To Men, Sex, And Love’s Deepest Bliss (2004) David Deida

https://www.amazon.com/Dear-Lover-Womans-Guide-Deepest/dp/1591792606/

Module 14:

Female Authority: Empowering Women Through Psychotherapy – A Jungian Approach (1990) by Polly Young-Eisendrath  and Florence L. Wiedemann

https://www.amazon.com/Female-Authority-Empowering-Psychotherapy-Approach/dp/0898624606

 

In a Different Voice: Psychological Theory and Women’s Development (1982/2016) Carol Gilligan.

https://www.amazon.com/Different-Voice-Psychological-Theory-Development/dp/0674970969/

 

The Way of the Superior Man: A Spiritual Guide to Mastering the Challenges of Women, Work, and Sexual Desire (1997) David Deida

https://www.amazon.com/The-Way-of-Superior-Man-audiobook/dp/B07FXZBYJ9/

 

The Masculine in Relationship: A Blueprint for Inspiring the Trust, Lust, and Devotion of a Strong Woman Paperback (2019) GS Youngblood

https://www.amazon.com/dp/1699443386 (maybe nothing new, read reviews.)

 

King, Warrior, Magician, Lover: Rediscovering the Archetypes of the Mature Masculine Hardcover (1990) by Robert L. Moore, Douglas Gillette. https://www.amazon.com/King-Warrior-Magician-Lover-Rediscovering/dp/0062505971/

 

Fire in the Belly: On Being a Man (1992) Sam Keen https://www.amazon.com/Fire-Belly-Being-Sam-Keen/dp/0553351370

 

Iron John: A Book about Men (1990/2015 Robert Bly

https://www.amazon.com/Iron-John-Book-about-Men/dp/0306824264

Module 15:

Online quiz: https://www.5lovelanguages.com/quizzes/

The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love that Lasts (1992/2015) by Gary Chapman

https://www.amazon.com/Love-Languages-Secret-that-Lasts/dp/080241270X/

 

The 5 Languages of Apology (2006) by Gary Chapman

https://www.elpizocounselling.com/2017/11/16/5-languages-apology/

 

Why You Are Who You Are: Investigations into Human Personality (2018) by Mark Leary, The Great Courses

https://www.audible.com/pd/Why-You-Are-Who-You-Are-Audiobook/B07946LTV5

 

Module 16:

https://www.thechangeworks.com/images/Famous.pdf

Enneagram type relationship type 2 with type 7: https://www.enneagraminstitute.com/relationship-type-2-with-type-7

www.enneagraminstitute.com

Khaled Elsherbini: https://enneagramegypt.com/

Free test Max Marmer: https://app.trueself.io/profile/questions (also see https://www.blog.trueself.io/)

Instincts test:

https://www.enneagraminstitute.com/ivq

http://similarminds.com/variant.html

http://personalitycafe.com/enneagram-personality-theory-forum/149408-instinctual-variant-test-final-version.html

Dr. David Daniels: https://drdaviddaniels.com/

Helen Palmer: http://www.enneagram.com/

Ginger Lapid Bogda https://theenneagraminbusiness.com/

Joshua French Enneagram Videos English:

https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLS9bke1UbUL1hzeyf9IUsjtB3uEnsHSWE

Enneagram app: https://play.google.com/store/search?q=enneagram&c=apps&hl=en

All Enneagram books on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/s?k=Enneagram&ref=nb_sb_noss_2

The Wisdom of the Enneagram: The Complete Guide to Psychological and Spiritual Growth for the Nine Personality Types (1999) by Don Richard Riso, Russ Hudson
https://www.amazon.com/Wisdom-Enneagram-Psychological-Spiritual-Personality/dp/0553378201/

Facets of Unity: The Enneagram of Holy Ideas (2000) by A. H. Almaas https://www.amazon.com/Facets-Unity-Enneagram-Almaas-2000-09-05/dp/B01N8YAS36

The Enneagram, Relationships, and Intimacy: Understanding One Another Leads to Loving Better and Living More Fully (2018) by David Daniels and Suzanne Dion. Foreword by Daniel J. Siegel. https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1731357966

The Enneagram in Love and Work: Understanding Your Intimate and Business Relationships (1995) by Helen Palmer: https://www.amazon.com/Enneagram-Love-Work-Understanding-Relationships/dp/0062507214/

The Enneagram According to Pooh: https://theenneagraminbusiness.com/fascinating-or-fun/the-enneagram-according-to-pooh/

Module 17:

Attachment styles worksheet: https://drive.google.com/file/d/1TdnEUItRTffmKh6sqSby4bYb_V0iqz7v/view?usp=sharing

Attachment styles tests:

www.attachmentproject.com/ (great website with good resources)

www.greatist.com/health/attachment-style-quizzes#7

www.dianepooleheller.com/attachment-test/

www.web-research-design.net/cgi-bin/crq/crq.pl

Video: https://youtu.be/WjOowWxOXCg

Attached: The New Science of Adult Attachment and How It Can Help You Find – and Keep – Love (2012) Amir Levine and Rachel Heller

https://www.amazon.com/Attached-Science-Adult-Attachment-YouFind/dp/1585429139/

Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma and Consensual Nonmonogamy (2020) Jessica Fern
https://www.amazon.com/Polysecure-Attachment-Trauma-Consensual-Nonmonogamy/dp/1944934987

 

The Developing Mind, Second Edition: How Relationships and the Brain Interact to Shape Who We Are (2015) Daniel J. Siegel
https://www.amazon.com/Developing-Mind-Second-Relationships-Interact/dp/1462520677/

 

The Neurobiology of “We”: How Relationships, the Mind, and the Brain Interact to Shape Who We Are (Sounds True Audio Learning Course) Unabridged Edition (2008) Daniel Siegel M.D.

https://www.amazon.com/Neurobiology-We-Relationships-Interact-Learning/dp/159179949X

 

Attachment Disturbances in Adults: Treatment for Comprehensive Repair Hardcover (2016) Daniel P. Brown PhD, David S. Elliott PhD
https://www.amazon.com/Attachment-Disturbances-Adults-Treatment-Comprehensive/dp/0393711528

 

Attachment in Psychotherapie (2015) David J. Wallin

https://www.amazon.com/Attachment-Psychotherapy-David-J-Wallin/dp/1541457919

 

Healing Developmental Trauma: How Early Trauma Affects Self-Regulation, Self-Image, and the Capacity for Relationship (2012) Laurence Heller Ph.D. Aline LaPierre Psy.D.

https://www.amazon.com/Healing-Developmental-Trauma-Self-Regulation-Relationship/dp/1583944893

CDC-Kaiser Permanente Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACE) Study

https://www.cdc.gov/violenceprevention/aces/about.html

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Adverse_Childhood_Experiences_Study

Coherent Narrative

https://www.huffpost.com/entry/personal-narrative-healing_b_862285

https://ecourse.psychalive.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/05/Coherent-Narrative.pdf

Interviewing your parents

https://www.amazon.com/Mom-Want-Hear-Your-Story/dp/1081439793/

https://www.storyworth.com/questions

Module 18:

Still Face Experiment: https://youtu.be/apzXGEbZht0

3-2-1 process https://integrallife.com/the-3-2-1-shadow-process/

Undefended Love: The Way You Felt About Yourself When You First Fell in Love Is the Way You Can Feel All the Time (2000) Jett Psaris and Marlena S Lyons.

https://www.amazon.com/Undefended-Love-about-Yourself-First/dp/1572242086/

 

See books by A. H. Almas/Diamond Approach

https://www.amazon.com/A-H-Almaas/e/B000APJFS8/

 

The Atman Project: A Transpersonal View of Human Development (1996) Ken Wilber

https://www.amazon.com/Atman-Project-Transpersonal-Human-Development/dp/0835607305

Module 19:

False identities pdf: https://katiedejong.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/05/Identifying-Core-Negative-Beliefs-Transformation-of-Identity-Matrix.pdf

Undefended Love: The Way You Felt About Yourself When You First Fell in Love Is the Way You Can Feel All the Time (2000) Jett Psaris and Marlena S Lyons. https://www.amazon.com/Undefended-Love-about-Yourself-First/dp/1572242086/

Healing Developmental Trauma: How Early Trauma Affects Self-Regulation, Self-Image, and the Capacity for Relationship (2012) Laurence Heller Ph.D. Aline LaPierre Psy.D.

NARM Training https://narmtraining.com/

Module 20:

The Evolution of Human Sexuality (1981) by Donald Symons

https://www.amazon.com/Evolution-Human-Sexuality-Donald-Symons/dp/0195029070/

The Myth of Male Power (1993) by Warren Farrell

https://www.amazon.com/Myth-Male-Power-Warren-Farrell-ebook/dp/B076HVLZGH/

Warrior Lovers: Erotic Fiction, Evolution and Female Sexuality (2003) Donald Symons and Catherine Salmon

https://www.amazon.com/Warrior-Lovers-Fiction-Evolution-Sexuality/dp/0300093543/

The Evolution Of Desire: Strategies of Human Mating (2003) by David M. Buss

https://www.amazon.com/Evolution-Desire-Strategies-Human-Mating/dp/046500802X/

Dataclysm: Love, Sex, Race, and Identity–What Our Online Lives Tell Us about Our Offline Selves (2015) by Christian Rudder.

https://www.amazon.com/Dataclysm-Identity-What-Online-Offline-Selves/dp/0385347391$MA see updated worksheet

Module 21:

22 Stages of Relationship Between An Empath and A Narcissist

Module 22:

Social exchange theory: https://www.tutor2u.net/psychology/reference/relationships-social-exchange-theory

The Mating Mind: How Sexual Choice Shaped the Evolution of Human Nature (2001) by Geoffrey Miller https://www.amazon.com/Mating-Mind-Sexual-Choice-Evolution/dp/038549517X

Module 23:

StrengthsFinder 2.0. (2007) by Tom Rath https://www.amazon.com/StrengthsFinder-2-0-Tom-Rath/dp/159562015X

True Purpose: 12 Strategies for Discovering the Difference You Are Meant to Make (2009) by Tim Kelley https://www.amazon.com/True-Purpose-Strategies-Discovering-Difference/dp/0615267939

Clifton Strengths Test

https://www.gallup.com/cliftonstrengths/en/252137/home.aspx

Talent Dynamics Profile Test https://www.tdprofiletest.com/home/

The Soul’s Code: In Search of Character and Calling. Grand Central Publishing, (1996) by James Hillman. https://www.amazon.com/Souls-Code-Search-Character-Calling/dp/B001Q3M5YO

What Were You Born to Do? (2013) by Adney, Curtis (Workbook). Natural Success Solutions. https://www.amazon.com/What-Were-You-Born-Workbook/dp/1883692091

True Purpose: 12 Strategies for Discovering the Difference You Are Meant to Make, (2009) by Tim Kelley. Transcendent Solutions Press. https://www.amazon.com/True-Purpose-Strategies-Discovering-Difference/dp/0615267939

Warren, Rick. 2002. The Purpose Driven Life: What on Earth Am I Here For? Zondervan (50+ Million sold, translated into 70 languages). https://www.amazon.com/Purpose-Driven-Life-What-Earth/dp/031033750X

Scharmer, Otto and Kaufer, Katrin. 2013. Leading from the Emerging Future: From Ego-System to Eco-System Economies. Berrett-Koehler Publishers. https://www.amazon.com/Leading-Emerging-Future-Ego-System-Eco-System/dp/1605099260

Plotkin, Bill. 2008. Nature and the Human Soul: Cultivating Wholeness and Community in a Fragmented World. New World Library. https://www.amazon.com/Nature-Human-Soul-Cultivating-Fragmented/dp/1577315510

Tolle, Eckhart. 2005. A New Earth: Awakening to Your Life’s Purpose. Penguin. https://www.amazon.com/New-Earth-Awakening-Purpose-Selection/dp/0452289963

Cohen, Andrew. 2011. Evolutionary Enlightenment: A New Path to Spiritual Awakening. Select Books. https://www.amazon.com/Evolutionary-Enlightenment-Path-Spiritual-Awakening/dp/1590792092

Almaas, A.H. 1987. Diamond Heart Series Books. Diamond Books. https://www.amazon.com/Elements-Real-Diamond-Heart-Book/dp/0936713011

The Law of Divine Compensation: On Work, Money, and Miracles (2014), Marianne Williamson https://www.amazon.com/Law-Divine-Compensation-Money-Miracles/dp/0062205420

Houston, Jean (online courses) Awakening to Your Life’s Purpose.

Feminine Power https://femininepower.com/

Your Unique Self: The Radical Path to Personal Enlightenment (xxx) Marc Gafni

https://www.amazon.com/Your-Unique-Self-Personal-Enlightenment-ebook/dp/B00A7KCM04

Japanese Ikigai: https://ikigaitribe.com/

https://www.un.org/en/sections/issues-depth/global-issues-overview/

https://www.un.org/development/desa/disabilities/envision2030.html

Module 24:

Module 25:

Module 26:

All images and statistics from Sex Purpose Love are at

https://integralrelationship.com/splstatistics/

 

The Couple: Intimate Relations in a New Key (2016) Prof. Ferdinand Fellmann. https://www.amazon.com/Couple-Intimate-Relations-Development-Humanities/dp/3643907702/ about the primacy of the couple.

 

Habermas: A Very Short Introduction (2005) Gordon Finlayson

 

The Exceptional Seven Percent: The Nine Secrets of the Worlds Happiest Couples (2002) Gregory Popcak. https://www.amazon.com/Exceptional-Seven-Percent-Secrets-Happiest/dp/0806523581