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Relationship experts tell us that only about 3% of the adult population enjoy long-term, happy relationships (50% are single, 20% are happy in their relationship right now, 50% will end up in divorce).  We may call this a National Crisis.  Albert Einstein said, "The...

In a recent (brilliant) article on Beams and Struts, Vanessa Fischer concludes: "Theorists have argued for jettisoning the term "Feminine" all together due to the problems it poses in polarizing men and women and essentializing certain qualities about women that...

In the past few weeks, several people asked me this question from Shakespeare's Hamlet (about ending one's life (relationship) or continuing to suffer) .  Their pain of staying is becoming larger than their fear of leaving, or for singles, their pain of being alone...

Seeing a reality in our romantic relationships is one thing, getting emotionally triggered and hung up on it is another. I recently realized that I had a huge cultural shadow that took me eight years, including writing Integral Relationships: A Manual for Men, to see...

The signs of our economic and ecological crisis become more evident every day.   This underlines the importance and urgency for more men and women to evolve into "second-tier" consciousness where our sexual selection process (aka choosing a partner--which...

In a recent training that I participated in, the internationally acclaimed Soulmate Attraction Expert announced her divorce--explaining that it is now normal for women to have an average of five consecutive "committed" relationships/marriages. In addition to her...

Imagine a bookstore that organized its relationship books by the number of perspectives that their readers can take. Looking at the bottom shelf, you would find books for egocentric men (The Pickup Artist or The Professional Bachelor Dating Guide: How to Exploit Her...