by Martin Ucik | Nov 15, 2011 | Blog
Relationship experts tell us that only about 3% of the adult population enjoy long-term, happy relationships (50% are single, 20% are happy in their relationship right now, 50% will end up in divorce). We may call this a National Crisis.  Albert Einstein said,...
by Martin Ucik | Nov 3, 2011 | Blog
In a recent (brilliant) article on Beams and Struts, Vanessa Fischer concludes: “Theorists have argued for jettisoning the term “Feminine” all together due to the problems it poses in polarizing men and women and essentializing certain qualities...
by Martin Ucik | Sep 23, 2011 | Blog
In the past few weeks, several people asked me this question from Shakespeare’s Hamlet (about ending one’s life (relationship) or continuing to suffer) . Their pain of staying is becoming larger than their fear of leaving, or for singles, their pain of...
by Martin Ucik | Sep 8, 2011 | Blog
Seeing a reality in our romantic relationships is one thing, getting emotionally triggered and hung up on it is another. I recently realized that I had a huge cultural shadow that took me eight years, including writing Integral Relationships: A Manual for Men, to see...
by Martin Ucik | Aug 5, 2011 | Blog
The signs of our economic and ecological crisis become more evident every day. Â This underlines the importance and urgency for more men and women to evolve into “second-tier” consciousness where our sexual selection process (aka choosing a...
by Martin Ucik | Jul 13, 2011 | Blog
In a recent training that I participated in, the internationally acclaimed Soulmate Attraction Expert announced her divorce–explaining that it is now normal for women to have an average of five consecutive “committed” relationships/marriages. In...