by Martin Ucik | Feb 17, 2021 | Blog
73% of Americans believe in soulmates. Most of them envision everlasting love, romance, sexual attraction, and happiness, and to live happily ever after once they fall in love–without having to do any ongoing work in their relationship. However, this is a magical...
by Martin Ucik | Feb 11, 2021 | Blog
In the past 15 years, I have been arguing that if we want to create a sane, loving, peaceful, and sustainable world, we need to first learn how to co-create a peaceful and sustainable love relationship with one person, and then expand from there. It escapes me why an...
by Martin Ucik | Feb 3, 2021 | Blog
It is an interesting phenomenon that men by any measure (life expectancy, physical health, job security, financial income, social status, sexual satisfaction, emotional stability, substance abuse, suicide rate, etc.) benefit more from being in love relationships than...
by Martin Ucik | Jan 4, 2021 | Blog
The Integral Relationship Model shows us that love relationships are co-create in four dimensions between partners: Their interior individual “I” mind/feelings and “We” collective cultural conditioning, and their exterior “It”...
by Martin Ucik | Dec 23, 2020 | Blog
In a dialog with Allan Combs, Ken Wilber gave four definitions for Integral: 1. To be Integrally informed. 2. A horizontal integration of the four quadrants at a particular level of consciousness. 3. The highest levels of development possible. 4. The integration of...
by Martin Ucik | Dec 23, 2020 | Blog
Of course I am kidding about “Secrets”. There are no secrets! After reading over 200 relationship books, participating in countless workshops and trainings, dating for several years (after being married twice for a total of 21 years, with four daughters),...
