by Martin Ucik | Dec 21, 2020 | Blog
The relationship dynamic that develops between partners beyond the fulfillment of the individuals’ Primary Fantasy is determined by the developmental potentials that all adults possess. Â To better grasp how these multiple dimensions interconnect and affect the...
by Martin Ucik | Dec 7, 2020 | Blog
[bookly-cancellation-confirmation]Almost 150 people participated in last weeks survey about monogamy vs. non-monogamy and many provided additional perspectives. Thank you to all of you! Mono Non-Mono Mono Mono Non-Mono Non-Mono Celibacy Celibacy Celibacy Other Level...
by Martin Ucik | Nov 23, 2020 | Blog
#4 of 12 Values for Integral Relationship Evolutionaries: We use our relationship for ongoing mutual learning, healing, growing, and awakening towards the capacity to love unconditionally. Learning about the world, yourself and your partner by staying curious,...
by Martin Ucik | Nov 19, 2020 | Blog
My first suggestion is to begin the conversation by being curious about what others think and feel, and to actively listen without judging, projecting, and forming answers in our head. Most people are more open to hear you when they first feel heard and understood by...
by Martin Ucik | Nov 17, 2020 | Blog
With transcend I mean to go beyond, while reasonably including. With primary fantasy, a term I first read in Warren Farrell’s book Why Men Are the Way They Are, I mean the biological hardwiring of heterosexual males to desire young(er) sexy females with smooth...
by Martin Ucik | Nov 12, 2020 | Blog
Value #1 of 12 Values for Integral Relationship Evolutionaries: We choose to love instead of something that happens to us or that we attract. A few weeks after publishing Integral Relationships: A Manual for Men in 2010, I received a flyer with “10 Core...
