by Martin Ucik | Apr 10, 2020 | Blog
By looking what is lacking inside of you that you project onto partners, and to heal these wounds by finding it in yourself. You may be an Ennegram 2 type (the helper) who initially offers to help (or worse to rescue) others in the hope to get love in return. That...
by Martin Ucik | Apr 10, 2020 | Blog
These and related relationship challenges can be solved through balancing and harmonizing healthy feminine and masculine polarities between you and your partner. Feminine and masculine energies can be embodied by males and females. Alas, we can not be simultaneously...
by Martin Ucik | Apr 9, 2020 | Blog
You can have a happy relationship at any level of development and awareness, as long as you and your partner are at the same level and realize that higher levels are always possible. Then you can make an agreement to learn, heal, grow, and awaken together to realize...
by Martin Ucik | Apr 9, 2020 | Blog
You most likely attract men who have not developed their healthy masculine and may be identified with an unhealthy or repressed feminine (or Anima). This way, you cannot relax into your healthy feminine polarity. Another possibility is that you may not have developed...
by Martin Ucik | Apr 9, 2020 | Blog
You either have an avoidant attachment style or you quickly go down the fear-shame spiral. For the former we can send you a test and work with you on becoming more secure. For the latter we suggest that you look at the shame (if you are a man) or fear (if you are a...
by Martin Ucik | Apr 9, 2020 | Blog
First of all, it is very compassionate of you that you take care of him when he is down, even if it is frustrating to you. Not taking care of him is of course no solution to improve your relationship. Men usually don’t speak when they feel shame about having problems....
