by Martin Ucik | Apr 13, 2020 | Blog
It can be very scary when we no longer trust our partner and when our values don’t match. Trust is mainly an inside job. This means, we don’t trust ourselves enough to be OK when someone else would let us down, and/or we don’t have healthy boundaries and clear values...
by Martin Ucik | Apr 13, 2020 | Blog
Thank you for your question. I sense your longing for such a relationship. Physical, sexual, emotional and spiritual attraction is based on many biological and psychological factors that often seem mysterious to people. While we have little control over it, we can...
by Martin Ucik | Apr 10, 2020 | Blog
Thank you for your question. Do you mean to physically meet and relax together? Are there practical reasons (time, money, distance, no place to meet etc.) or emotional reasons (not enough attraction, fear, shame, different needs and expectations?). maybe you can...
by Martin Ucik | Apr 10, 2020 | Blog
It can be frustrating when we expect to hear from someone we love and he does not get in touch with us. My first thought is if you clearly communicated with him that would love to hear from him on a daily basis. You may have different love languages, and he may not...
by Martin Ucik | Apr 10, 2020 | Blog
Of course they come back for more of what you gave them initially, because they are selfish. So the question is, why do you attract and enter into a relationship with them in the first place? Because I don’t know you, I can only speculate that you may have low...
by Martin Ucik | Apr 10, 2020 | Blog
I don’t fully understand the question, but it seems to be related to establishing healthy boundaries (not accepting clearly emotionally abusive and harmful behavior of your partner), empathy for the suffering of your partner with a “negative code” and helping him/her...