Why do the conflicts in our marriage repeat?

Why do the conflicts in our marriage repeat?

There can be multiple reasons, or a combination of them. Naturally, becoming integrally informed and experienced is the foundation for identifying resolving any relationship conflict. Below are a few reasons why you struggle:The first may be that you may have...
Are anger and fear inevitable?

Are anger and fear inevitable?

Being able to feel emotions is part of what makes us human. So yes, they are inevitable. Primary emotions evolved in response to an unsupportive environment, caregiver failure and adverse experiences that we faced during our childhood and became ‘hardwired’ in the...
Is it a mistake to care more about sex than love?

Is it a mistake to care more about sex than love?

If you are totally clear and honest about your intentions, feelings and desires, if they are mutal, and if the sex is consensual and healthy, then I see no problem with caring more about sex than love. However, it can be tricky, as women often get attached after sex...
We still love each other but our sex life has died.

We still love each other but our sex life has died.

The answer and solution is found in one or more of the four dimensions of our being: One is in our interior mind and feelings–as David Schnarch wrote, our biggest sex organ is the brain. You may have emotional blocks and trauma, unresolved differences and...