by Martin Ucik | Apr 13, 2020 | Blog
If you are totally clear and honest about your intentions, feelings and desires, if they are mutal, and if the sex is consensual and healthy, then I see no problem with caring more about sex than love. However, it can be tricky, as women often get attached after sex...
by Martin Ucik | Apr 13, 2020 | Blog
The answer and solution is found in one or more of the four dimensions of our being: One is in our interior mind and feelings–as David Schnarch wrote, our biggest sex organ is the brain. You may have emotional blocks and trauma, unresolved differences and...
by Martin Ucik | Apr 13, 2020 | Blog
Thank you for your question. I sense your conflict between being in committed safe relationship, and your fear of disappointment. Your conflict is most likely related to a highly avoidant and/or highly anxious attachment style. If that is the case, see my answer to ...
by Martin Ucik | Apr 13, 2020 | Blog
Thank you for your question. It can be frustrating when we get this feeling of not being adequate or good enough for our partner. The first question is if your partner challenges you to learn, heal, grow, and awaken so that you can realize your full human potential,...
by Martin Ucik | Apr 13, 2020 | Blog
It can be very scary when we no longer trust our partner and when our values don’t match. Trust is mainly an inside job. This means, we don’t trust ourselves enough to be OK when someone else would let us down, and/or we don’t have healthy boundaries and clear values...
