by Martin Ucik | Apr 13, 2020 | Blog
The answer and solution is found in one or more of the four dimensions of our being: One is in our interior mind and feelings–as David Schnarch wrote, our biggest sex organ is the brain. You may have emotional blocks and trauma, unresolved differences and...
by Martin Ucik | Apr 13, 2020 | Blog
Thank you for your question. I sense your conflict between being in committed safe relationship, and your fear of disappointment. Your conflict is most likely related to a highly avoidant and/or highly anxious attachment style. If that is the case, see my answer to ...
by Martin Ucik | Apr 13, 2020 | Blog
Thank you for your question. It can be frustrating when we get this feeling of not being adequate or good enough for our partner. The first question is if your partner challenges you to learn, heal, grow, and awaken so that you can realize your full human potential,...
by Martin Ucik | Apr 13, 2020 | Blog
It can be very scary when we no longer trust our partner and when our values don’t match. Trust is mainly an inside job. This means, we don’t trust ourselves enough to be OK when someone else would let us down, and/or we don’t have healthy boundaries and clear values...
by Martin Ucik | Apr 13, 2020 | Blog
Thank you for your question. I sense your longing for such a relationship. Physical, sexual, emotional and spiritual attraction is based on many biological and psychological factors that often seem mysterious to people. While we have little control over it, we can...
by Martin Ucik | Apr 10, 2020 | Blog
Thank you for your question. Do you mean to physically meet and relax together? Are there practical reasons (time, money, distance, no place to meet etc.) or emotional reasons (not enough attraction, fear, shame, different needs and expectations?). maybe you can...
