by Martin Ucik | Apr 10, 2020 | Blog
It can be frustrating when we expect to hear from someone we love and he does not get in touch with us. My first thought is if you clearly communicated with him that would love to hear from him on a daily basis. You may have different love languages, and he may not...
by Martin Ucik | Apr 10, 2020 | Blog
Of course they come back for more of what you gave them initially, because they are selfish. So the question is, why do you attract and enter into a relationship with them in the first place? Because I don’t know you, I can only speculate that you may have low...
by Martin Ucik | Apr 10, 2020 | Blog
I don’t fully understand the question, but it seems to be related to establishing healthy boundaries (not accepting clearly emotionally abusive and harmful behavior of your partner), empathy for the suffering of your partner with a “negative code” and helping him/her...
by Martin Ucik | Apr 10, 2020 | Blog
I assume you mean to solve the problem of an anxious, avoidant, or disoriented/disorganized attachment style and how to move towards secure attachment. The first step is to take a test to become clear what attachment style you or your partner have and to acknowledge...
by Martin Ucik | Apr 10, 2020 | Blog
It sounds like you feel trapped between your (and/or your partner’s) desire for freedom and the safety of your marriage. Many people confuse freedom with independence and autonomy. Ultimately, freedom is an inner state, while independence and autonomy are outer...
by Martin Ucik | Apr 10, 2020 | Blog
Thank you for the question. It sounds like you feel powerless in your relationship. As you see all around you, males who are in leadership have the highest social status, hold the most power, often make the most money, AND have the most attractive (=fertile) females....