How to get rid of my negative and unnecessary thoughts? How can I transform the effects of constantly recurring negative thoughts?
The answers are already implied in your questions. There is the “you“ and there are “the negative thoughts”. Negative and positive thoughts or voices have been “installed” in your conscious and unconscious mind from early childhood on. These voices change based on...
Is it a mistake to care more about sex than love?
If you are totally clear and honest about your intentions, feelings and desires, if they are mutal, and if the sex is consensual and healthy, then I see no problem with caring more about sex than love. However, it can be tricky, as women often get attached after sex...
We still love each other but our sex life has died.
The answer and solution is found in one or more of the four dimensions of our being: One is in our interior mind and feelings--as David Schnarch wrote, our biggest sex organ is the brain. You may have emotional blocks and trauma, unresolved differences and conflicts,...
I am afraid of getting married. I am always the one who changes other’s tune and I am afraid of being cheated. I am also afraid of being abandoned. I'm afraid of marriage. I'm always the one in the relationship and apologizing: I have a fear of being cheated and I have a fear of being abandoned.
Thank you for your question. I sense your conflict between being in committed safe relationship, and your fear of disappointment. Your conflict is most likely related to a highly avoidant and/or highly anxious attachment style. If that is the case, see my answer to ...