Click below for answers to your questions:

Communication from our Aware & Healed Self As we see in the image above, men and women at different levels of consciousness use different ways of communicating to find consensus or agreement (encapsulated in the wonderful German word Verständigung, which means to...

How Integral Psychotherapy addresses spiritual bypassing, attachment styles, personality disorders, and shadow issues in love relationships. Integral men are often attracted to women with complex personalities. We find them interesting and fascinating, as they usually...

Click here to download the Power Point Show. Watch the Video at https://youtu.be/bECj_5POLX0 Anodea Judith's comprehensive work about the seven chakras provided much of the wisdom and foundation for developing the Integral Love Relationship model in Part III of my new...

Michaela Böhm worked with David Deida for 13 years and is one of the most gifted and in-demand relationship teachers, speakers, and counselors to be found globally today. Watch the episode on the Integral Love Relationship YouTube Channel...

Are you excited about the Integral Relationship model? Click below to learn more Facilitator and Private Trainings or Personal Consultations You can download the PowerPoint Presentation from the video here. Many scientific studies proof that being in a healthy...

When we start living our Transcendental Purpose (TP) we will naturally feel attracted to, and attract people who share it.This is the point where understanding the different stages of maturity, altitude, depth, and calling become crucial. Otherwise, we may connect...

There are four different methods that have been identified by purpose guides to discovering our natural talents and resulting Transcendental Purpose. Download a Power Point Presentation here and watch the Video on the IR YouTube Channel We call these four methods (1)...

Watch the video of this Web Jam at https://youtu.be/d-A9GrH6KuY After all the theory and "mansplaining" during our first four web jams (see videos here), I had a conversation with Authors Maria Appelqvist and Belinda Busteed Burum about what makes love work, and why...

Watch the edited video Why Shared Purpose is the Future of Love and a Better World at https://youtu.be/8BC7WximNrE and download the Power Point Presentation here. Similar to being in a healthy sustainable love relationship, living on purpose has many health benefits...

Watch the conversation at www.youtube.com/watch?v=Jwbna1u5uyY. At 55:50 Andrew shares that our recent conversations made him consider how great it would be if he and his wife would have had children and that raising children would probably have told him some hard...

Watch the replay of our Web Jam about this topic at www.youtube.com/watch?v=UuG8CADp9V0&t=749s To understand why families matter for functioning communities and a better word, we need to take a closer look at human history and modern societies. In the image below...

Watch the replay of our Web Jam about this topic at https://youtu.be/8Ho20O9066Y You can watch the full replay with comments at https://events.genndi.com/replay/169105139238472651/ae2efe76e3/0/0 Most people know about the statistics that couples in healthy happy love...

Understand why Love is unconditional but relationships are not. Learn to better understand and meet the opposite sex by looking through an Integral lens of the four dimensions of our human being and how we create eight different forms of love through them;...

Integral Relationship Practitioner Trainings May 1- 5, 2019, Surmeli Hotel – Istanbul, Turkey The Integral Relationship Model has proven its validity in heart and mind-opening workshops, healthy love relationships, and thriving marriages around the world. Now you...

Join us for a weekend of learning and embodying the Integral Love Relationship Model Singles will receive a clear road-map to finding/attracting and identifying compatible partners for the co-creation of sustainable relationships between opposites and equals (and...

Join us for a weekend of learning and embodying the Integral Love Relationship Model Singles will receive a clear road-map to finding/attracting and identifying compatible partners for the co-creation of sustainable relationships between opposites and equals (and...

According to social philosopher Jürgen Habermas*, all human actions (which Gandhi says become our habits, values and destiny), are always primarily coordinated by speech or language use. Whenever humans use language to coordinate their love relationships, they enter...

One detail that is missing in Integral Relationships: A Manual for Men are the three Instinctual Variants in the Enneagram. You can do a test at www.enneagraminstitute.com/ivq.asp#.UXVre7Wsh8E what variant you are. Some relationship experts maintain that couples with...

There are many reasons why couples argue, get into fights and end their relationships, and why singles can't find a partner or avoid relationships altogether: - Unfulfilled primary fantasies. - Different passions, lifestyle choices or visions for the relationship. -...

Barbara Marx Hubbard gives us a first pointer to answering the question if women are more evolved than men when she shared: "I have always been inspired by the great men who were evolutionaries. They were all men! I was attracted to their ideas and their seed, and it...

What is an Integral Relationship Evolutionary? Throughout history, males and females co-created three major forms of relationships that supported their survival and procreation:* 1. In hunter/gatherer societies that existed exclusively until about 12.000 years ago,...

Last Thursday 2/9/2012, I had the great honor and pleasure to meet Ken Wilber at his loft in Denver, CO (it was my first of five visits total so far). At the end of ISE #2 over New Years 2010/11 I was shocked, saddened, and moved to tears for several weeks after...

In early December last year I ranted in a newsletter about "lying relationship experts".  An emotional button was pushed when I heard the Soul Mate expert who I was trained by as a Coach promoting Conscious Uncoupling and Calling In "The Next One" courses to her...

The pictures below may better illustrate the point that I was trying to make in my last newsletter. The authors of the 200+ relationship books in my research library below are all specialists who cover a certain area of the entire relationship territory.  I owe a lot...

January 2012 / Notes from the Field Integral Leadership Review Barbara Larisch and Robin Reinach Does Integral make us happier? Martin Ucik questioned at the beginning of his presentation to Integral New York on Oct. 17, 2011. This issue hung in the air throughout...

Eckhart Tolle writes in The Power Of Now on page 132 (page 159 paperback edition): "Humanity is under great pressure to evolve because it is our only chance of survival as a race.  This will affect every aspect of our life and close relationships in particular...

Relationship experts tell us that only about 3% of the adult population enjoy long-term, happy relationships (50% are single, 20% are happy in their relationship right now, 50% will end up in divorce).  We may call this a National Crisis.  Albert Einstein said, "The...

In a recent (brilliant) article on Beams and Struts, Vanessa Fischer concludes: "Theorists have argued for jettisoning the term "Feminine" all together due to the problems it poses in polarizing men and women and essentializing certain qualities about women that...

In the past few weeks, several people asked me this question from Shakespeare's Hamlet (about ending one's life (relationship) or continuing to suffer) .  Their pain of staying is becoming larger than their fear of leaving, or for singles, their pain of being alone...

Seeing a reality in our romantic relationships is one thing, getting emotionally triggered and hung up on it is another. I recently realized that I had a huge cultural shadow that took me eight years, including writing Integral Relationships: A Manual for Men, to see...

The signs of our economic and ecological crisis become more evident every day.   This underlines the importance and urgency for more men and women to evolve into "second-tier" consciousness where our sexual selection process (aka choosing a partner--which...

In a recent training that I participated in, the internationally acclaimed Soulmate Attraction Expert announced her divorce--explaining that it is now normal for women to have an average of five consecutive "committed" relationships/marriages. In addition to her...

Imagine a bookstore that organized its relationship books by the number of perspectives that their readers can take. Looking at the bottom shelf, you would find books for egocentric men (The Pickup Artist or The Professional Bachelor Dating Guide: How to Exploit Her...