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Why men want to lead in the relationship?

Why men want to lead in the relationship?

Thank you for the question. It sounds like you feel powerless in your relationship. As you see all around you, males who are in leadership have the highest social status, hold the most power, often make the most money, AND have the most attractive (=fertile) females....

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How a life-lasting marriage is possible?

How a life-lasting marriage is possible?

I am excited to hear that you have this desire, as it is our vision and mission to empower couples to have life-long marriages. There are several keys: First that couples are at the same level of development in crucial areas such as consciousness, emotions, sexuality,...

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I feel love for everyone and everything, and am often drawn to multiple partners. I also have a deep yearning to be with my soulmate and to get married. Is there a practical way to do this?

I feel love for everyone and everything, and am often drawn to multiple partners. I also have a deep yearning to be with my soulmate and to get married. Is there a practical way to do this?

Feeling love for everyone and everything is a wonderful stage. It also opens the door to what is called polyamory (many loves), and often includes sexuality. Why limit our love and sexuality to one person if we can love everyone? Isn’t monogamy an unnatural product of...

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How can I get my partner to love me? How can I find a partner and fall in love? Why do I have a lack of love in my life? When will I fall in love? How can I feel that I deserve to be loved? How can I find inner love?

How can I get my partner to love me? How can I find a partner and fall in love? Why do I have a lack of love in my life? When will I fall in love? How can I feel that I deserve to be loved? How can I find inner love?

The answer to these questions depends largely on our definition of love and at what level of consciousness development and spiritual awareness we are. This defines our capacity to love and what makes us feel loved. On a physical level of survival and sexuality,...

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Communication problems and insecurity.

Communication problems and insecurity.

This may be related to self-validated versus other-validated intimacy, which is essentially an inner insecurity or lack of communication skills, or both.  David Schnarch characterizes it this way:Other-validated intimacy requires your partner to validate and accept...

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Are relationships based on profits?

Are relationships based on profits?

Need-based relationships often are. As long as there is a mutually beneficial exchange between the partners, even if asymmetrical, they can be healthy. As needs and the willingness to meet them change, the relationships become unstable. Shared purpose can transcend...

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I am only attracted to spiritual partners with complex personalities. Initially, these relationships are very exciting and we feel like soul-mates. But eventually, I feel used and burn out. How can I change this pattern?

I am only attracted to spiritual partners with complex personalities. Initially, these relationships are very exciting and we feel like soul-mates. But eventually, I feel used and burn out. How can I change this pattern?

It sounds like you are a highly evolved and empathetic person who thrives on deep intimacy and likes to help others. That is a wonderful trait. Unfortunately, people like you (and I fell into this trap as well several times) are often attracted to partners with...

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How are Sexuality and Spirituality connected?

How are Sexuality and Spirituality connected?

First of all, both are temporary states, which means sexual and spiritual peak experiences tend to come and go. Secondly, both unfold in 5 stages that are connected and unfold together, especially in state five of transcendental tantric sexuality, which requires a...

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COSM Part 2: Transcendental Purpose

COSM Part 2: Transcendental Purpose

I am very honored that world-renowned artists Alex and Allyson Grey invited me to contribute an article about the Dialectic of Love to their COSM Journal of Visionary Culture #10 about LOVE. You can order your copy...

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Fear Shame Downward Spiral Exercise

Fear Shame Downward Spiral Exercise

Man: I now realize that I stopped being romantic when I no longer ………. instead of showing my love and care for you by ….. (think of love languages). I am very sorry and feel ….. when this confused, disappointed and scared you. Going forward I will ….. (think about her...

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Communication with Kim Von Berg

Communication with Kim Von Berg

Communication from our Aware & Healed Self As we see in the image above, men and women at different levels of consciousness use different ways of communicating to find consensus or agreement (encapsulated in the wonderful German word Verständigung, which means to...

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Coupling at All Seven Chakras with Anodea Judith

Coupling at All Seven Chakras with Anodea Judith

Click here to download the Power Point Show. Watch the Video at https://youtu.be/bECj_5POLX0 Anodea Judith's comprehensive work about the seven chakras provided much of the wisdom and foundation for developing the Integral Love Relationship model in Part III of my new...

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What is an Integral Love Relationship?

What is an Integral Love Relationship?

In an Integral Love Relationship, (1) equal and opposite partners with a (2) shared Biological and Transcendental Purpose and the (3) same rights and responsibilities in the domestic and public sphere love each other, and even more so that which is uniquely co-created...

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What Makes Love Work

What Makes Love Work

Watch the video of this Web Jam at https://youtu.be/d-A9GrH6KuY After all the theory and "mansplaining" during our first four web jams (see videos here), I had a conversation with Authors Maria Appelqvist and Belinda Busteed Burum about what makes love work, and why...

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Why Families Matter for a Better World

Why Families Matter for a Better World

Watch the replay of our Web Jam about this topic at www.youtube.com/watch?v=UuG8CADp9V0&t=749s To understand why families matter for functioning communities and a better word, we need to take a closer look at human history and modern societies. In the image below...

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Why Love Relationships Matter

Why Love Relationships Matter

Watch the replay of our Web Jam about this topic at https://youtu.be/8Ho20O9066Y You can watch the full replay with comments at https://events.genndi.com/replay/169105139238472651/ae2efe76e3/0/0 Most people know about the statistics that couples in healthy happy love...

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April 26-28, 2019 Istanbul IR Weekend Workshop

April 26-28, 2019 Istanbul IR Weekend Workshop

Join us for a weekend of learning and embodying the Integral Love Relationship Model Singles will receive a clear road-map to finding/attracting and identifying compatible partners for the co-creation of sustainable relationships between opposites and equals (and...

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