Integral Relationship Evolutionaries

Integral Relationship Evolutionaries

In an Integral Evolutionary Relationship, both partners are at an Integral or higher level of consciousness and share (1) what they love to do/feel called to do, (2) what they do well, (3) what the world needs, and (4) what the world will pay for--their Evolutionary...

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Evolution of Relationships

Evolution of Relationships

As we evolve as humans, so do our love relationships. At this point of our human history we can map out eight stages: 1. In the most fundamental form, love relationships are driven by basic survival instincts: food, shelter and sex. Our primary sexual selection...

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Enneagram Instinctual Variants

Enneagram Instinctual Variants

One detail that is missing in Integral Relationships: A Manual for Men are the three Instinctual Variants in the Enneagram. You can do a test at www.enneagraminstitute.com/ivq.asp#.UXVre7Wsh8E what variant you are. Some relationship experts maintain that couples with...

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Are Women More Evolved Than Men?

Are Women More Evolved Than Men?

Barbara Marx Hubbard gives us a first pointer to answering the question if women are more evolved than men when she shared: "I have always been inspired by the great men who were evolutionaries. They were all men! I was attracted to their ideas and their seed, and it...

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What is an Integral Relationship?

What is an Integral Relationship?

In a dialog with Allan Combs, Ken Wilber gave four definitions for Integral: 1. To be Integrally informed. 2. A horizontal integration of the four quadrants at a particular level of consciousness. 3. The highest levels of development possible. 4. The integration of...

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My visit to Ken Wilber

My visit to Ken Wilber

Last Thursday 2/9/2012, I had the great honor and pleasure to meet Ken Wilber at his loft in Denver, CO (it was my first of 4 visits total so far). At the end of ISE #2 over New Years 2010/11 I was shocked, saddened, and moved to tears for several weeks after hearing...

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My critics where right

My critics where right

In early December last year I ranted in a newsletter about "lying relationship experts".  An emotional button was pushed when I heard the Soul Mate expert who I was trained by as a Coach promoting Conscious Uncoupling and Calling In "The Next One" courses to her...

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The purpose of my recent rant

The purpose of my recent rant

The pictures below may better illustrate the point that I was trying to make in my last newsletter. The authors of the 200+ relationship books in my research library below are all specialists who cover a certain area of the entire relationship territory.  I owe a lot...

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An Inconvenient Relationship Truth

An Inconvenient Relationship Truth

Eckhart Tolle writes in The Power Of Now on page 132 (page 159 paperback edition): "Humanity is under great pressure to evolve because it is our only chance of survival as a race.  This will affect every aspect of our life and close relationships in particular...

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The 97%

The 97%

Relationship experts tell us that only about 3% of the adult population enjoy long-term, happy relationships (50% are single, 20% are happy in their relationship right now, 50% will end up in divorce).  We may call this a National Crisis.  Albert Einstein said, "The...

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To Be or Not To Be – That Is The Question

To Be or Not To Be – That Is The Question

In the past few weeks, several people asked me this question from Shakespeare's Hamlet (about ending one's life (relationship) or continuing to suffer) .  Their pain of staying is becoming larger than their fear of leaving, or for singles, their pain of being alone...

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My cultural shadow

My cultural shadow

Seeing a reality in our romantic relationships is one thing, getting emotionally triggered and hung up on it is another. I recently realized that I had a huge cultural shadow that took me eight years, including writing Integral Relationships: A Manual for Men, to see...

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