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Module 1: The four dimensions of relating
Book to learn and practice how to build a solid foundation for a healthy sustainable Integral Love Relationship. Realize that four essential dimensions of your human being and relating come into intimate contact with each other when you fall in love and enter a...
Module 2: Survival, magic, and power in love relationships
Book to learn and explore how the archaic, magic, and egocentric stages of consciousness developed in your earlier life and how they impact your love relationships today. Receive an introduction to cultural and individual developmental stages of consciousness and...
Module 3: Mythic conformism and modern rationality in love relationships
Book to learn and practice how/if the mythic and modern stages of consciousness developed in your life, and how they impact your love relationships today. Gain insights into the fourth stage, which is called mythic or traditional, in which you seek to satisfy your...
Module 4: Postmodern pluralistic sensitivity in love relationships
Book to learn and practice how/if the pluralistic stage of consciousness developed in your life, and how it impacts your love relationships today. Feel how this stage allows for greater compassion, idealism, and involvement by providing a sense that all human...
Module 5: Integral and transpersonal love relationships
Book to learn and practice how/if the integral and transpersonal stages of consciousness development emerged in your life, and how they impact your love relationships today. Realize why people at the previous “first-tier” levels of consciousness development insist...
Module 6: Compassionate communication
Book to learn and practice how to communicate your observations and related feelings in a nonviolent and compassionate way in order to get your needs met by your partner. Identify your specific needs when relating with others, especially in your love relationships....
Module 7: Need-Based communication
Book to learn and practice how people at the first six levels of consciousness development communicate differently to validate their views and behaviors to get their needs met. Realize that it is generally true that the most important skill to make relationships work...
Module 8: Integral and transpersonal communication
Book to learn and practice how people at the seventh integral and eighth transpersonal level of consciousness communicate to validate their views and behaviors in order to get their needs met. Realize why everyone is right (but not equally right) from the viewpoint of...
Module 9: Biological Differences and Learned Gender Roles
Book to learn and practice how to understand the opposite sex as never before, by hearing about their deepest secrets, truths, fears, shame, frustrations, desires, hopes, attractions, joys, appreciations, and needs. Distinguish between biological/natural sex...
Module 10: Avoiding the Fear - Shame Downward Spiral
Book to learn and practice how to avoid going down the fear-shame spiral that eventually leads to relationship crash, and how to make amends and return to love if the spiral has already happened for you and your partner. Realize why approx. 50 percent of relationships...
Module 11: Feminine-Masculine Polarities
Book to learn and practice how to develop, balance, and harmonize healthy feminine and masculine polarities for the co-creation of sexual attraction and synergy in a healthy, sustainable love relationship. Define what feminine and masculine means to you. See how the...
Module 12: Spiritual Development
Image above: Five State/Stages of Waking Up and Eight Stages of Growing Up (a.k.a. Wilber-Combs Matrix/Lattice) Book to learn and practice how to identify five states of spiritual experiences or “waking up” through a guided meditation. Realize how these state...
Module 13: Sexual Development
Book to learn and practice how to identify five state-stages of sexual development, ranging from repressed to sacred/tantric/transcendent. Understand why it is vital for thriving love relationships that couples move towards the fourth “making love” stage—in which...
Module 14: Anima Animus Complex Development
Book to learn and practice how to identify five possible stages of the animus complex development in females and five possible stages of anima complex development in males, and how they profoundly impact their love relationships. Take a deep dive into your early...
Module 15: Love Languages
Book to learn and practice how to improve your dates and love relationships by becoming aware of personality types in general and The Five Love Languages in particular. Identify in which of five ways you and your partner naturally tend to show and receive love and...
Module 16: Enneagram Types
Book to learn and practice how to identify which of the nine Enneagram types you and your partner resonate with most. Feel into your “wings”—the type(s) next to the primary type that you identify with—and the types you move towards under stress and when you relax....
Module 17: Attachment Styles
Book to learn and practice how to identify your and your partner’s attachment style through a test and conversation about how you feel about intimate relationships and react under relationship stress. Gain a deeper understanding of the four attachment styles that are...
Module 18: The Unconscious
Book to learn and practice how to become emotionally available and deepen your love relationship by taking full responsibility for your primary emotional fight, flight, or freeze reactions to your partner’s reality, instead of projecting them outward onto him or her...
Module 19: Healing our Shadow
Book to learn and practice how to transform your relationship conflicts into opportunities for ongoing learning, healing, growing, awakening. Discover your true identity or essence through a simple, yet profound, six-step process. Take full responsibility for your...
Module 20: Eight Forms, Six Levels, and Five States of Love
Book to learn and practice how to fall in love with someone good for you, and you for him or her, by understanding eight forms of love, six levels of dependence, and five states or phases of love. Realize that the eight forms of love are experienced through a...
Module 21: Personality Disorders
Book to learn and practice how not to fall in love with someone who is bad for you, and you for him or her, unless you want to. Identify possible symptoms of personality disorders. Choose how to respond to people who display symptoms, especially in love relationships....
Module 22: Sharing Biological Purpose
Book to learn and practice how to identify and share your biological purpose and transformational purpose in a healthy love relationship. Reveal your belief in creationism, evolutionary theory, intelligent design, or a co-creative life force that fundamentally shapes...
Module 23: Transcendental Purpose
Book to learn and practice how to awaken to, identify, live, and share your transcendental purpose that goes beyond your biological and transformational purpose. Reap the physical and psychological benefits from living your transformational purpose, such as increased...
Module 24: Soulmates
Book to learn and practice how to define, identify, and find or attract your soulmate. Connect with your soul’s deepest desires and yearnings for a mate to co-create on the biological, transformational, and transcendental level of your being. Remove psychological...
Module 25: Co-Creation at the Seven Chakras
Book to learn and practice how to co-create a healthy sustainable Integral Love Relationship with your soulmate at the level of your seven chakras. Engage in a meditative breathing and movement exercise that allows you to feel into the co-creative life force of each...
Module 26: Why Relationships Matter and Health Path
Book to learn and realize why being in a healthy sustainable Integral Love Relationship not only matters for your own well-being and flourishing, but also for that of your soulmate, humanity, and future generations. Recognize that all functional systems are created by...